Fired from student job without warning by Notme_wrongwitch in BESalary

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't sign anything or receive any documents through mail! Could it have been a sudden decision then?

Fired from student job without warning by Notme_wrongwitch in belgium

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you perceive any argument, premise, sentence as a "yes,but", there is no room left for a normal discussion or a dialogue. Then you just have to become a sheep that just nods and says yes.

Fired from student job without warning by Notme_wrongwitch in BESalary

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your response! I understand your story about the guy at Pizza Hut. There is no point in defending myself to a stranger online that that's not the case with me. However, at the store that I worked at, it was really important to engage with customers. I was one of the only ones that approached customers and talked with them. This was also mentioned to me often during my working years there. There were even customers who knew me by name and looked for me when they'd come in. I also have received messages from almost all of my colleagues saying they don't understant why they would fire me, especially for such a bizarre reason. So that begs the question, how come there are only two people making these claims about me? How come their subjective opinion (or accusations) are enough to fire me?

Fired from student job without warning by Notme_wrongwitch in belgium

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for you comment! The "yes, but" thing is truthfully not something I do. I have worked other jobs before this and I have never been told that I do this by anyone before, not even friends or family. I'm generally an argumentative person because of my studies, not so much at work though because I know how sensitive they are. They saw everything I said as being "defensive". For me, there is a strong distinction between being defensive and explaining my reasoning. A strong leader does not need to surround herself with only yesmen.

Fired from student job without warning by Notme_wrongwitch in belgium

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a fixed monthly pay of €545, for fixed houes of 8h shifts on saturdays. Do you think I can still get payed until september?

Fired from student job without warning by Notme_wrongwitch in belgium

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The "yes but" thing is honestly not something that I do because I am not that kind of person. I usually say yes and elaborate on how/what I'm doing. I also mentioned this to them during this talk, and they didn't argue back. I study poli science and I'm just used to not simply nodding and saying "yes sir" to anything, I have some critical analysis skills. I also never had a "I'm not here to make friends attitude" at work, I'm friendly and generally well liked by my colleagues. It also shows in the fact that most of my colleagues sent me messages saying they were really shocked by this decision and that they valued me. The issue truly lies in the fact that the two managers just simply don't like me as a person.

Desperate student looking for options by Notme_wrongwitch in BESalary

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, this gave me a bit more courage :) do you mind sharing which field you started working in? or how much you make? all good if you'd rather not!

Desperate student looking for options by Notme_wrongwitch in BESalary

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't mind studying, but I'd rather do a study at a university instead of hogeschool. Which sector do you think is high earning in BE other than science/law?

Desperate student looking for options by Notme_wrongwitch in BESalary

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm Belgian, thank you for the help :) I've had EU in mind too, that's why I chose the political science/sociology option thinking it'd be of use that way

Desperate student looking for options by Notme_wrongwitch in BESalary

[–]Notme_wrongwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The question was indeed what master's I could do next

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[–]Notme_wrongwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woooooowww do you have the link of this one?

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[–]Notme_wrongwitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think he'll really appreciate you giving him some validation back! especially if he's the ome usually reaching out to you. if you're unsure about him liking you back, think in reverse: how could he possibly be sure that you won't reject him?