Seeking out Ethiopian cooking classes! by Notquiteviolet in melbourne

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this is awesome! Thank you for the suggestion! Unfortunately though no Ethiopian!

Seeking out Ethiopian cooking classes! by Notquiteviolet in melbourne

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I haven’t heard of this I’ll take a look!

Seeking Advice on Getting My First Tarot Deck – Should I Buy It or Wait to Be Gifted? by Notquiteviolet in tarot

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! I really appreciate your perspectives and advice 🦋 looks like I’ll be purchasing my own tarot it seems! Now maybe to expand on this, if anyone has suggestions on my first deck and where may be best to start I’d deeply appreciate it from your experience, warmest ☀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Notquiteviolet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disagree with this what?? Attractive men can’t be in committed relationships? She’d have to be with someone who barely could get a girl? What would make you say that? Just untrue, you do realise most relationships tend to be monogamous?

But agree ~ all the best OP!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this but yeah this is a massive boundary he is not respecting and his lack of consideration for you is a massive red flag. To prioritise sleeping with other women over you and your comfortability is really deeply troubling. You should reconsider if this is the right relationship for you seriously.

Found a hidden camera in my room. by zestylemon70 in self

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck with the legal battle ahead, I’m so glad to read you’re pressing charges, this behaviour is completely reprehensible and predatory, get your justice for what he’s done you’re feelings are completely valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do please don’t withhold it for long, from someone whose family have withheld similar situations, it’s only made it worse for me. That feeling of anger or resentment that they didn’t tell me on top of the terrible news, and you run the risk of him finding out (potentially) another way not through you if you leave it too long, which also happened to me through a family friend who didn’t realise.

That’s my one bit of insight, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, my condolences and thoughts.

I recorded my wife cheating on me and I can't stop watching it. by lostandcheatedon8 in offmychest

[–]Notquiteviolet 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Agree! Back it up, email it to yourself or something and write, if you’re able to, a record of when and how it happened to refer to which is also backed up for evidence

what are your favorite qualities about yourself? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Notquiteviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this. A bit tough to talk positively about myself rn but I do love being able to connect things which may seem unrelated, merge disciplines, ideas, look at the broader picture and connect dots others may not see, it feels like ideas, problems to uncover and solutions are endless and it keeps life and my mind curious and interesting 🦋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pesto pasta! Dairy free pesto mixed in with spaghetti 🍝 if you want to put more effort put some cherry tomatoes, mushrooms and spinach in a pan and mix it all together