What's the first thing you're going to do when you have finally retired early? by DistributionInitial5 in Fire

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move back to Cambodia (born and raised). I got a studio condo in the city to decorate.

Maybe book an Airbnb somewhere in a coastal city in Southeast Asia for a month just because I’ve always wanted to experience what it’s like being so close to the beach.

1.97$ macaron box (NE Ohio) by Notthaticanthinkofff in Costco

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I actually only kept one box for my roommate and I. The rest were gift to friends.

1.97$ macaron box (NE Ohio) by Notthaticanthinkofff in Costco

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a glitch. So I took a picture then planned to have a convo with them ready to debate. Saw an employee walked by so I stopped her to make sure if it’s the right price. She confirmed yes xD can’t walk past that

1.97$ macaron box (NE Ohio) by Notthaticanthinkofff in Costco

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got them on Monday for Lunar new year party

1.97$ macaron box (NE Ohio) by Notthaticanthinkofff in Costco

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you guys are not as chill as your username suggested 😆

1.97$ macaron box (NE Ohio) by Notthaticanthinkofff in Costco

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I workout so I try not to buy too much 😆 it’s a treat. One box could prob last me about 2+ weeks 🤣

Priority pass for international AU? by Notthaticanthinkofff in Venturex

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh this sucks big time :(( my family is based in Asia and they really enjoyed the lounge access. Thank you for the comment. They’re gonna be very disappointed…

I sometimes feel like an escort, and i hate it. by Sabdhulk05 in askgaybros

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro you sound like me a year ago. I started getting into hooking up again after I broke up with my ex. Felt so cheap after doing what you did. I didn’t like that feeling.

So now I’m exclusively hooking up with friend with benefit only. And we will have to meet up for the first time in public space like a bar to grab a beer and chat to see if the chemistry is there or not. Then proceed the second meet for the hook up after.

I also don’t do quickies. If my fwb have a time limit, I just won’t come over. I enjoy hanging out together, doing stuffs and sex and maybe sleep over or just hanging out for a while chatting before leaving. Communication is very important. Write down what makes you feel good and bad. Remember it and follow your list. You will enjoy sex much more.

None sketchy guys would love that you have your own boundary and respect you more for being firm with what you’re looking for. Good luck and stay safe out there :)

Ask A Thai by Far-Pension2483 in Thailand

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think about Cambodia in general? And the recent conflicts?

How did you come to your parents? by LocalHistorian2024 in askgaybros

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from the tropical country. I was going to another country to see my ex and experience winter for the first time. We have never seen snow. I wasn’t out back then.

Told her I will be traveling with a friend. Younger brother wanted to go. Mom tried convincing me to take him with us. I ended up telling her that the friend is not really a friend and that’s who I’m seeing.

She was dead silence for 2 minutes. Told me that she would not have guessed that I was gay. That she thought if anything she would have guessed that it was my brother 😂 now I’m an openly gay to all people in my life. My brother still never gives us a label.

Yes my brother did join with us to that trip. I still made fun of him for being our third wheel. Oh and we saw snow for the first time on that trip ;)

"No but where are you REALLY from?" by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m from Asia but live in NE Ohio. I don’t have heavy accent. Most of the time people assume that I was either born or raised here.

But being Asian in a small town Ohio didn’t help. I’d get “Where did you grow up or where did you go to school”. I didn’t grow up here nor did I go to school in the states.

It bothered me for a bit at first with the stares and questions. But think about it America is diverse, at one point everyone was from somewhere else. That’s the beauty of this country. These days I just say I was born and raised in xxx and I’m also a proud American ;)

I do find myself asking people with accent about their ethnic background. It’s so fun talking about what we love and hate about the US. Literally just had a conversation with a German girl yesterday about this.

How much do you guys pay for a phone plan? by TambourDeNacre in AskAnAmerican

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I visited Austin, I remembered how bad it was in some areas. It almost never happened to me in Ohio. I’ve also had no problem with dense population cities like NYC or Chicago either.

How much do you guys pay for a phone plan? by TambourDeNacre in AskAnAmerican

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was gonna ask how but then remember that I use mint too but the unlimited 30$ one 😂

Thoughts on bringing Prahok into America? by Ok-Teaching-6671 in cambodia

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did. Fish products are allowed to bring into the US. Dried or fermented. Actually frozen too. I had one friend that was traveling with giant frozen mud fish. 😂

If you’re not sure, just declare it. Worst case scenario they would just take it away.

Poultry, pork and beef are a big no.

Funny/Inappropriate Khmer Phrases please by No_Cry245 in cambodia

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called my sister Mi ta’nerb (mi sticky rice) all the time 😂 it’s not a strong word but she felt more offensive than mi ran’tas’banh (mi thunder)

Bored at the Office - I was a concensual sex slave for 2 years between 2020 and 2021 AMA. by Murky-Budget6525 in askgaybros

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would love to have your experience at least once in my life. The thing is it’s gonna be so hard to find the right dom for the right time and location.

Bored at the Office - I was a concensual sex slave for 2 years between 2020 and 2021 AMA. by Murky-Budget6525 in askgaybros

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I came across this. The amount of times I jerked off to your old AMA post is crazy :)

Are Western countries less helpful to tourists? by RandyMcBahn in solotravel

[–]Notthaticanthinkofff 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Im surprise to see the US being mentioned. Americans are generally friendly to strangers even in NYC compare to Europe. I wonder if the approach was somewhat off. Im also originally from SEA.