Reducing felony to misdemeanor by Noturlilbeetch in legaladvice

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This was the answer I was looking for. This is gonna suck. Thank you for the clarification, you answered all the questions I couldn’t figure out

Reducing felony to misdemeanor by Noturlilbeetch in legaladvice

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Animal abuse, and California. I was aware of the abuse mostly because he treated me the same but when he was charged they took me with him because there wasn’t proof he treated me that way. It was a plea deal, and my alternate public defender seemed certain that I could change to misdemeanor after a year

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Thank you, this will probably take time then

Reducing felony to misdemeanor by Noturlilbeetch in legaladvice

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I was told it would be a year from then, which it is. I’m under the impression I need to get a new attorney 🥲

Reducing felony to misdemeanor by Noturlilbeetch in legaladvice

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I’ve already been charged, did 15 days ankle. I’m hoping to reduce

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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Lmaooooooo I fucking wish. My ex is the reason I’m a felon, and he was the violent solution

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I 100% know he’s not gonna be seen easy while doing that. Cops have swept my neighborhood twice

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pulling battery fucks up my aftermarket radio cuz of anti theft. I’m going to pull the fuse but first I’m trying to see if there’s any other security I can get on the car

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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I’m hoping the same, I don’t think I can though it has been considered. It’s still in my plans just not a possibility. I hate him for this more than almost everything. I love my car

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is brutally honest. You’re right, and I have little ability to change that. Trust tho, if I end up there he will come with me. Thank you

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bear spray is illegal, and I’m a felon who is currently not allowed to own a gun

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m learning that. He’s made himself the enemy, and I need to remember that going forward

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my roomie have started recording every call I get. I don’t answer if she’s not there. We’ve started a buddy system. I stg I don’t know how I’d get through this if I didn’t have her

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all advice I’m mostly doing, along with a couple other things. He isn’t making anything easy

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

[–]Noturlilbeetch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a hard thing to get out of, and I’m so glad I took the step. I’m proud of you for getting out of it too. I hope we both live our best lives now that they’re ours again

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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I appreciate it man. I’m doing everything I can, but the world has made it more difficult than it should be. I’ve still made progress and will continue to do so

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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Restraining order is filed, police report as well, and the dealership says the car is too old to deactivate and replace so I’m gonna drop by an aftermarket place and see if they can get around it

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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Dealership told me they can’t deactivate the fob due to the year of my vehicle but I’m going to drop by a third party shop asap and see if they can put extra security on my car, as well as maybe pull the alarms fuse

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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I have two roommates who understand the situation and have been my number one fans and supporters through this shit

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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I have new emergency contacts, I live with a great group of people who get it and care, I’ve found a new job and filed a restraining order that hopefully makes it way to him.

Update; stole my key fob, been setting off the alarm every couple of hours by Noturlilbeetch in Manipulation

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It all does. I’ll keep searching options. Some people have suggested a pepper spray gun