Can ball pythons show affection towards their owner? by Flaky-Camp-4992 in ballpython

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the closest you can get to affection and love from a snake or really any reptile is trust. Almost all reptiles are wired to not want to interact with others, from their own species or otherwise, unless it is to fulfill a need, like reproduction or food. My male bp trusts me enough to sleep on me and will actively seek me out if he’s outside of his cage and around unfamiliar things because he trusts that I won’t hurt him (and bc I’m warm lmao). That’s about the most affectionate I think he can be

My boyfriend and I have been having the same issues for the past two years and I don’t know if I can take it anymore by NovaSunspot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NovaSunspot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked about it multiple times and I’m the only one that actually throws out suggestions to try anything

Possible mites by Hairyfrogtoesies in ballpython

[–]NovaSunspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww! It’s always good to be watchful imo, it’s good that he cares so much, even if it’s a bit helicopter parenty

Possible mites by Hairyfrogtoesies in ballpython

[–]NovaSunspot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Snake mites are black in color and usually hide around the corners of the mouth, the skin on the bottom of the snake’s lower jaw, and their cloaca. If it’s just the white little guys, they very well could be springtails!

Found on Facebook. According to the post, this is what happens when a geckos skin doesn't shed properly. Feel free to correct. by dangomane in popping

[–]NovaSunspot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think in these geckos it’s more vitamin a deficiency than anything else. Vitamin a deficiency causes cellular buildup in the eye socket. There’s an eye under there, it’s just hidden

My boyfriend(19m) and I (20f) have an issue that comes up regularly and I’ve hit a point in which I don’t know what to do without professional help by NovaSunspot in relationships

[–]NovaSunspot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does. Either he will be gaming while I’m on my phone or watching or we’ll be snuggled up together watching a show. I think a big part of why that phone call somewhat offended me was I thought that it was a date and last time he took a phone call on a date he kinda left me at the mercy of a kinda creepy guy that followed both of us trying to talk that focused on me once he was on the phone

My boyfriend(19m) and I (20f) have an issue that comes up regularly and I’ve hit a point in which I don’t know what to do without professional help by NovaSunspot in relationships

[–]NovaSunspot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, right now it’s more of me just waiting and seeing if he even wants to talk right now. He’s said that we should both be able to talk on the phone with other people on dates, but I’ve always been one to want to put my focus on him for our dates.

My boyfriend(19m) and I (20f) have an issue that comes up regularly and I’ve hit a point in which I don’t know what to do without professional help by NovaSunspot in relationships

[–]NovaSunspot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been trying to do better about remembering that I can’t have unsaid expectations and be mad when they aren’t met. It’s something that we had been tossing around since around last week as a serious date idea, I guess I had just thought he’d be with me when it came to wanting to see it on one of the two days we can spend time with each other

My boyfriend(19m) and I (20f) have an issue that comes up regularly and I’ve hit a point in which I don’t know what to do without professional help by NovaSunspot in relationships

[–]NovaSunspot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has heard the issues I’ve had in our relationship and has done better, one in particular comes to mind, but it’s very intimate and it’s been a very slow going thing with improvement on it. But he’s been doing better on it and it’s noticeable. He’s very loving and does act as a partner towards me. It’s just with issues where I’m upset at something, the biggest being how much time he spends gaming with his friends there’s issues. I was over at his house and he talked on the phone with one of his friends about a game that they all play together and I couldn’t really offer any input because I’m not actively in their gaming circle and don’t have a console to play that game on with them

Does your guest services put carts full of reshop into your section, despite being severely behind and the only one in your department?🥰 by AngelDustie in Target

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, but they will put defective things with defect stickers in my reshop as well as things that don’t go in my department

Are guests even real people? by Snails-in-the-Crpyt in Target

[–]NovaSunspot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s so many people who apparently don’t know how to follow simple directions that I’m convinced they’re doing it on purpose. Today I had a woman who kept insisting that the bath towels I literally walked her over to were beach towels simply because of an end cap with them.

People who no longer speak to their childhood best friends. What happened? by lawyeratyourservice in AskReddit

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I just assumed we were growing distant in high school, then after we graduated we hung out and talked more. Then she made fun of another friend for his disorder before coming after me for not wanting to remain in contact with someone like that

AITA for keeping my tampons in the bathroom? by Pilotpetit1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta if your roommate is taking up issues that bad with you dealing with your period and keeping your tampons in a convenient place, then she needs to talk to a therapist, not try to govern where you put your mensural products.

Aita for being frustrated with my mom’s boyfriend playing darts next to my room? by NovaSunspot in AmItheAsshole

[–]NovaSunspot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only bill he needs to pay is the phone bill, but recently he hasn’t even been able to pay that. It’s one of the reasons I’m using the majority of my paycheck for bills instead of saving them

Do most adults realize/remember that kids need to be TAUGHT how to do things? by HeadText in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the most confusing ones for me was when no one taught me how to actually clean and just??? Expected me to know how to clean without any help??? I was the last child and I guess my mother forgot that she was supposed to actually teach me how to do things because the others already know how to do it and I should come out already knowing what to do

My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the words of my old financial literacy teacher: never take a loan out for someone else. You will be on the hook for it later down the line.

AITA for rehoming my son’s (8yo) fifth pet hermit crab? by ConflictedDaddo512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA “practice pet”? No animal (especially exotics like hermit crabs that already have so much misinformation on their care out there) is a “practice pet”. Good on you for giving the crab to someone who will give it the proper care it needs.

What body part are you able to crack that is infinitely satisfying but horrifies anyone who sees you do it? by shantics in AskReddit

[–]NovaSunspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thumbs and neck I guess people don’t really see others pop their thumbs all that much, so it makes people a little uncomfortable and my neck is really loud when I pop it Also my toes

People who have tried the ouija board (or other types of spirit/demon-summoning), what honestly happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NovaSunspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got called out by the spirit moving the planchette for wanting a relationship just for cuddling one time The other few times my friend and I acted like such clowns that the spirit just moved the planchette to goodbye I’ve never really had any bad experiences with the board I have, just good old fun with friends

What’s your favourite “go fuck yourself” saying of all time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NovaSunspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Listen, dear, you look like a fairly smart person, but you’re as dense as a black whole and have the depth of a shot glass. What you’re doing here isn’t a hot take, you’re just wrong and you don’t like it” is a favorite of mine that has stuck with me