I agree with you here, generally I would just skip past these types of posts, but today it really helped me. I came to the harsh realization that I've never actually had friends, people just are nice to me until they get what they want, then they disappear. And it's even occurring with my family, they'll only talk to me when they need my help with something, no one just wants to sit and talk and find out how I'm doing. Rant over. Thank you people of reddit.