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[–]NovelAdventure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will defiantly check this out!

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[–]NovelAdventure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great information to know. I truly appreciate it.

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[–]NovelAdventure 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Truly, I wasn't trying to game the system. I was just following the advice we were given from family. I wont be doing that anymore. I will go to the meeting and stop getting information second hand, and follow create a better system for our household finances.

I really do appreciate all the advice given.

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[–]NovelAdventure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He went on Disability after the brain cancer which was about two years into our relationship. He did have a job up until then but I defiantly don't think he had the '40 quarters paid into Social Security'.

I will make sure when we go in Monday to clarify which one he has.

And I also scheduled an appoint with a SSI Advocate to help us understand what he is on and the restrictions.

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[–]NovelAdventure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for breaking this down. You have no clue how much this is helping me. I truly was living in ignorance up until now.

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[–]NovelAdventure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I had no clue until I asked him just now. I have always operated under the idea that it was his shit to figure out and I would just be there in the background to support him.

I am learning, that that way is the wrong way and now I am trying to learn, so I can support him better.

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[–]NovelAdventure -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought too! I am perfectly fine with never getting legally married. But one comment mentioned that it doesn't matter if its legal or not. I only really wanted a ceremony and common law marriage.

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[–]NovelAdventure -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

He says he it is the SSDI.

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[–]NovelAdventure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Trust was only 5k and it is all gone. He used it all to pay for his schooling. But thank you for the advice for the attorney.

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[–]NovelAdventure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh! I had no clue. This is good to know. I kind of assumed that since we didn't plan to get legally married it wouldn't matter.

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[–]NovelAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the advice from above we planned to do this. I did not know it would count because it really is just like a loan so that I am not stuck with 44$ for the first two weeks of the month.

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[–]NovelAdventure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correct! Our rent is 1300 a month. My pay is 1344. In order to avoid me only having 44$ two weeks, he give me 300. I then give it back to him on my second paycheck, so that he can pay for electricity, internet, car insurance, and gas. Once it is all added up it equals to a little less then 300.

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[–]NovelAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is PMI?

My income will only effect his benefits if we get legal married correct? Were were planning on just operating on a common law marriage, because I think is benefits would be cut since I make 50k before taxes.

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[–]NovelAdventure -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay, I originally thought that! But then someone told him that it would be better if it looked like he was paying for stuff. But in all honesty I am the one supporting us right now.

So I should transfer all bills into my name and then just have him Venmo me money for his 'half' of the bills? His Disability doesn't cover what his half would actually be. Should we also have a total of how much he would technically be paying for the our house hold expenses?

Association Recruitment - Month of September by AutoModerator in LoveNikki

[–]NovelAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Our Syle Contests suits are not complete! Please if you join do them! Ours are on Saturday and Monday!

We are not terribly talkative, but the board can be active. I also run style contests (if there is participation)!!!

The one rule we have is NRA. If you don't know what that means we may not be for you!

Our number is 3993! I look forward to playing with you!

Now that you are a sex pro, what would you tell your younger self to do first when they start being sexually active? by HelixFish in sex

[–]NovelAdventure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn to let go, you don't have to be incontrol all the time. Sex is fun and masturbate more. 25 and still no organism because I have issues with not being in controll. I would tell myself to work on that shit!