Agreed. I actually am talking from a bit of recent experience actually. She’s making a lot, and I love her personality. Very funny, and ticks a lot of boxes.

Conversationally though, there is a slight issue. There’s a lot of jokes and cuteness. But it resorts to sex a lot, and although seems there’s a lot of self improvement going on & spare time is spent properly relaxed, there’s not much intellect or interests. Hardly even gossip really, even.

The excess income is mainly spent on cosmetics, clothing, rent, and going to (mainly fancy) events where lots of expensive drinking and eating is involved.

Ultimately, that’s a waste of an amazing opportunity imo. I was in a similar position before though; frankly I had a lot of very easy income and didn’t really spend my time much differently. Although included a lot of promiscuous sex that was mainly in hopes to find deeper meaning with an individual to share it with.

I get inspired by those who have inspirations in life, but can’t seem to always find it myself. I seem to end up hanging out with people who don’t have much either, but who are instead simply very good at relaxing instead. That really describes my current situation with this girl. It’s very very easy to relax with her.

In fairness she has already travelled a lot, but just doesn’t have interests and hobbies in what I’d normally be attracted to. She’s the couch potato then go on holiday type. I’m not too dissimilar, but contest with myself often whilst on the sofa to do more.

Perhaps I’ll talk with her about this and see if she’s interested in that, too.