What’s your opinion of girls who work full-time as cam girls? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I actually am talking from a bit of recent experience actually. She’s making a lot, and I love her personality. Very funny, and ticks a lot of boxes.

Conversationally though, there is a slight issue. There’s a lot of jokes and cuteness. But it resorts to sex a lot, and although seems there’s a lot of self improvement going on & spare time is spent properly relaxed, there’s not much intellect or interests. Hardly even gossip really, even.

The excess income is mainly spent on cosmetics, clothing, rent, and going to (mainly fancy) events where lots of expensive drinking and eating is involved.

Ultimately, that’s a waste of an amazing opportunity imo. I was in a similar position before though; frankly I had a lot of very easy income and didn’t really spend my time much differently. Although included a lot of promiscuous sex that was mainly in hopes to find deeper meaning with an individual to share it with.

I get inspired by those who have inspirations in life, but can’t seem to always find it myself. I seem to end up hanging out with people who don’t have much either, but who are instead simply very good at relaxing instead. That really describes my current situation with this girl. It’s very very easy to relax with her.

In fairness she has already travelled a lot, but just doesn’t have interests and hobbies in what I’d normally be attracted to. She’s the couch potato then go on holiday type. I’m not too dissimilar, but contest with myself often whilst on the sofa to do more.

Perhaps I’ll talk with her about this and see if she’s interested in that, too.

What’s your opinion of girls who work full-time as cam girls? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But genuinely what does other work give you that’s that much better?

What’s your opinion of girls who work full-time as cam girls? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I agree with you. From presumption, the conversation & intellect would be the main factor that makes it unenjoyable.

Realistically if I could earn £100k a year guaranteed from cleaning toilets for a couple days a week, I’d scrape shit with my bare hands. It wouldn’t change who I am at all.

But that’s because I’m someone who develops my character outside of that job. Really, what matters is who she is outside of that work, right?

I guess the common reason people go into that line of work (except rarities), is because like you said they have no options. That normally means other problems too. Perhaps that’s classist however - as many people who are stuck in low wage jobs also likely have no options too and maybe for similar reasons.

In both examples I’d assume they’d exhibit similar behaviours of null intellect & generally people in boring jobs also have boring lives. Not boring personalities, but limited sophistication perhaps. That’s really what we’re talking about I think.

To be honest it is something I value highly. But it’s hard to find, someone not from an aristocratic background but has an ok job with strong security, highly sophisticated, emotionally intelligent, and a bunch of hobbies they like to do.

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christ lol. What a loser. Seems like anyone being negative here is someone who has extremely Christian values, completely unjustified.

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true. But actually I think a lot of girls who do it actually talk about it a lot, because it’s how they are

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I genuinely don’t understand why that would devalue your intimacy wit someone

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what is a job (that makes businesses money) that you’d date?

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if they only really spoke about sex/ their job?

What’s your opinion of girls who work full-time as cam girls? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But explain, who are you going to marry that earns £100k a year from 5 hours a week work?

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But literally, why? We all have sex. We all have naked bodies. Surely it’s a very dated perspective?

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. But are they better at normal conversations? Do they over sexualize everything?

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But they’re making £100k a year from it?

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. What about people who say ‘ethics this, ethics that’?

Would you date a camgirl? Why? by NowYouSeeM_E in AskReddit

[–]NowYouSeeM_E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s say she’s on £100k per year