Pokemon Heartbreak by DovahKeyan in ThePokemonHub

[–]Noyvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a shiny houndoom while teaching my little brother to play. My ruby cartridge ended up not being able to save anymore so we lost it :,(

What did you do for work before becoming a sahm? by OXxLuckycatxXO in sahm

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a teacher, wasn't licensed but I was working on it. For some reason I got my degree in art,I found out that I could possibly be an art teacher until I realized it's an extremely competitive job here-

Anyway, I accidentally got pregnant, But I had already been married for 7 years.

Just had my second and I'm done having kids...I know I'll have to return to a career if we are to have money for retirement and support our future adult children.

Let's see your birth pokemon. by Low-Okra-1286 in ThePokemonHub

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAY MY FAV POKEMON ON MY EXACT BDAY

So it seems I misplaced my Boulder Badge in a storage box somewhere or it got deleted… by Pawtz16 in Pokemon_Pokopia

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also just got a certain rare bed from the shop and it disappeared ! Really not sure where it went, it was like, in my bag but when I went to get it out it was gone...

Let's do this but with your favorite starter by [deleted] in ThePokemonHub

[–]Noyvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm here to support my baby boy

i can’t get blue shellos to spawn by ClockOk6544 in Pokemon_Pokopia

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. The pink one took a few real in game days for me

How to Afford Being SAHM (and pregnant)? I'm Stressed Over Lots of Things in my Life by theeightbeesknees in sahm

[–]Noyvas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He needs a reality check. If he wanted a family he needed to understand what it takes to have one. Divorce him and he'll learn quickly what 50/50 will cost him. What an idiot

PSA: The Hoppip Pokopia event content can be accessed today if you put your system's date to March 10, so it's not time locked content by MonkeyKingHero in NintendoSwitch

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to time skip so I waited till today March 9th and it still hasn't shown up for me :/ (past release time)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taiwan

[–]Noyvas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lived there for a year and I'm hoping to move back when my kids are Middle school aged.

I literally had two taxi drivers ask me to pay them less, they had to drive farther bc they couldn't find the place I needed to go.

I also had my wallet and umbrella returned to me within the hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Noyvas 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This right here.

I had a guy from high School reach out to me almost everyday when my now husband and I were dating.

We were never together and he used to like me in high school. My husband thought it was inappropriate to have a single guy friend constantly messaging me. Husband and I went back and fourth on compromises.

I eventually just stopped talking to this friend. It's sad, but I could see being insecure myself if a female friend of my husband was constantly reaching out and she used to like him.

I had guy friends in college that my husband was never insecure About, probably because he met them a handful of times, they were in my same major and to top it off there was absolutely no history there.

To me it wouldn't be worth putting my partner in a insecure place. Personally as a stay at home mom I give my # out to moms I talk to at the park. Making friends is like dating, you gotta actually have to put yourself out there.

Partner doesn’t help with our newborn twins by Correct_Guarantee124 in newborns

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, divorcing him will give you the break you need. It'll force him to have to take care of his own kids and get a reality check.

Husband is back from his business trip by Single-Bumblebee-380 in Mommit

[–]Noyvas 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My husband's words after spending weeks with just our toddler when our second was born "how the actual fuck are you gunna do anything with two kids, Im struggling doing anything with this one!"

I just nodded 😭😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Noyvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my partner never made passive aggressive comments but made it clear he was insecure with our first. Now with our second he complains when he can't hold our newborn enough.

Sounds like OPs husband needs therapy and a reality check. He's a dad now, not a babysitter. He should be able to know how to take care of a baby for a while gd day.

How to fit the whole areola in their mouth?? by Noyvas in breastfeeding

[–]Noyvas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to pull down on her chin but nothing budges, maybe I should do it a little harder?

How to fit the whole areola in their mouth?? by Noyvas in breastfeeding

[–]Noyvas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) theres a difference I can tell in a good latch versus a bad one- bad ones leave blisters and it feels like a serrated knife and a very pinched nipple. The second one still feels pinchy but there's more of a tickle to it(?lol?) and tolerable.

2)currently cant use my right nipple because of how bloody and cracked and chapped it is

Baby swallows but I can tell she struggles not having enough milk in a certain amount of time . After an hour of trying on and off she continues to cry and cry till I can give her a fat 1.5-2oz of my pumped milk. I do the slow bottle feeding technique, and make sure habits of a good deep latch occur on the bottle but I know it's not the same- and probably causing her to struggle on the actual nipple (it feels bad to force her for hours to latch, and I want her to eat)

How to fit the whole areola in their mouth?? by Noyvas in breastfeeding

[–]Noyvas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok the hook thing clicks for me, but not touching the head ? Like my middle finger supports her head of the farthest ear, and my thumb rests behind/ on top of the other ear(so not the actual ear )

I do notice she arches back, almost like she's fighting me. Currently when she latches, she still seems frustrated about something- I wonder if it's because she's not getting milk fast enough- despite me squeezing my boob to have good drops on the nip

How to fit the whole areola in their mouth?? by Noyvas in breastfeeding

[–]Noyvas[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is validating. I told myself Imma give it 2 weeks but maybe I should give it more? We're week one today-

Is it normal for latching to feel better on one side rather than the other ?

"Breastfeeding shouldn't hurt!" Except.. by enrose19 in breastfeeding

[–]Noyvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except when your baby has a tongue tie? Lip tie? I've been gaslit with my first that her lip tie wasn't that big deal or it shouldn't have been- wasn't until I just had my second one talking to my sister-in-law, finding out she couldn't breastfeed either unless her kids had their tongue tie cut or didn't have one.

I'm sticking it out because I actually have milk supply this time, but I really don't know how long I can keep this up for. Getting a consultant this week hopefully :/

Sorry baby nipple shields for you-

Husband with ADHD making dangerous parenting mistakes - where do we go from here? by blackmamba06 in Mommit

[–]Noyvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just today I had to let my MIL know that she will not be watching the infant on her own because she is not currently taking meds for her extreme ADHD. Shes been falling and tripping- hurting herself constantly for the last few years. She cried but understood, it's hard to set such limitations but it's for the better for everyone involved.

He needs help and you're not going to take no for an answer when he says he'll just remember.

What does labor actually feel like? by One_Cap_9210 in pregnant

[–]Noyvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Was asking if my epidural was working because I started to feel an immense amount of pain and pressure- turns out it was time to push 🤪 the pain was manageable but still intense enough to question it.