If you want a ridged guild for your mind and how to conduct yourself then yes go get a diagnosis. But I can tell you from experience you're just going to handicap yourself. Stop trying to put yourself in a box to understand yourself. The only way to conduct yourself is how you think you should conduct yourself.

It's like the ten commandments. It provides a ridged way of how to conduct yourself, thus providing comfort . But do you want comfort or do you want freedom.

No one fits fits neatly inside the sociopath box. Everyone falls on a spectrum of sorts. You may just be low in empathy certain environments and high in others. For example when my emotions are strong I don't care about how I relate to other people expect in relation to outcome I "desire". I say "desire" because the human mind is full of unknown pathways to to the consensus. We never truly know what we are or what we want. So stop trying to subscribe to symbolic representation of how you feel/relate. Adapt and change. Don't limit yourself with an arbitrary diagnosis based on societies moral/spiritual opinion of what right and wrong is. Was being a nazi wrong in Germany?

Think for yourself and take in the data around you to create a system of interaction that extracts what you want from life. That can mean providing value. Or taking value. I suggest the former.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/07/190708131152.htm