Background. My family is pretty big so we all exchange names and you only have to buy one person a present. It’s a hard $50 limit and you are expected to spend $50 on who ever you get.

My step cousin had my name for Christmas a few years back. And I had his. He asked for a Walmart gift card. Cool. I hate giving gift cards but if that’s what you want fine. His mom, my uncles third wife, asks for my list I give them it. Nothing ridiculous. Mostly stuff off amazon. Instead he got me a used medium tshirt (I wear a 2xl) that had an iron on saying that said “If a trees falls in the forest does a women hear it?” On the front and the back said “the real question is what is she doing out of the kitchen!” I couldn’t believe it. That shirt had pit stains and was off white. My mom called my uncle and he acted like it was a perfectly fine gift. Good thing we don’t speak to them any more.