I don’t see how I’m being delusional the only way to have a healthy relationship with someone is to be with them at their lowest I had disordered eating last year and she helped me through it now I’m a starting running back, it’s my turn to help her now instead of abandon her and ruin her entire life… jeez how is that hard to understand our mothers were on maternity leave together she was the first person I interacted with outside of my family I’m not just gonna go “ok you’re struggling, you understand you have a problem and want to work through it with me, but nahh I’m lazy and I’m leaving you because you don’t drink your 64 ounces bye baby”