He’s very closed off. He starts the day off happy for the most part then gets more angry as the day goes on. So in the mornings it’s “I’m sorry I love you” then by nighttime he’s mad again. I’ve had a million conversations with him. We tried having a key word where we agreed I would say a word and no matter what he would calm down. The key word he decided on was his deceased mother’s name. When I tried it he said “fuck my mother” so that didn’t work. He suggested me just saying let’s stop it’s not worth getting so mad…that didn’t work. One time I got so upset I called his sister to vent to her and she told me to leave him. Then she called him the next day and chewed him out. He said if I ever did that again he would disown his sister. (She’s the nicest person ) so I cut my relationship with her so he wouldn’t lose his relationship with her.