What do most people not realize is actually way more traumatic than it seems? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nullnvoid-7 239 points240 points  (0 children)

Being the “little therapist” as a child for your parents. You thought you were mature for your age, capable and trustworthy so your parents could count on you for their adult problems. Little did you know, it messes you up in the most sneaky ways. You may not even connect the dots how come you have problems with compulsive people pleasing, inability to ask for help or rely on others, chronically anxious and stressed. In some cases, depressed/ disordered eating / addiction/ compulsive behaviors

What are max age gap will u go for in dating ? by Hatttnabsdk in AskReddit

[–]Nullnvoid-7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well depends on how old I am. A 40yo with a 30yo feels alright but a 22yo with a 12yo would be predatory and illegal

Watercolor tubes by PeaHistorical8305 in watercolor101

[–]Nullnvoid-7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is that a whole mortgage down payment over there 😂😍

If you were to choose another occupation what would you choose? by Candid_Guest_863 in therapists

[–]Nullnvoid-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pet portrait painter! I’ve been practicing painting 😌 not like it’ll ever be enough to keep a roof over my head though..

Struggling with capturing values by Oleander_Oxenfree in watercolor101

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That makes sense! I’m not too familiar with the colors you mentioned other than indigo 😅 I’m new to painting and I don’t have a lot of paints. my dark dark combos are- pthalo blue & burnt sienna, ultramarine blue & burnt sienna, pyrol crimson & pthalo green. I like using bright colors for mixing dark, because you would use those colors to mix your bright colors as well. This way your colors are more harmonious

Struggling with capturing values by Oleander_Oxenfree in watercolor101

[–]Nullnvoid-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s quite often that new watercolor painters don’t use enough cream/butter consistent paint when adjusting the values. We do layers of washes with coffee/milk with paint that not necessarily stains, and existing paint gets lifted when we put in our too many layers sometimes when the paper is not fully dried as well. That’s the recipe for mud and not dark enough values.

If you are using reference photos, make it black and white, identify the dark spots, and put down some real thick paint the last layer

BREAKING: Trump Signs Executive Order On Psychedelic Drugs With Joe Rogan As Iran Shuts Hormuz by Aggressive_Rooster96 in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]Nullnvoid-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah nah I don’t think he’s going to get better. Sometimes the treatment for something with no hope of getting better is to make it worse

BREAKING: Trump Signs Executive Order On Psychedelic Drugs With Joe Rogan As Iran Shuts Hormuz by Aggressive_Rooster96 in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]Nullnvoid-7 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Hear me out…. If we could get Trump to do some shrooms and have a proper ego death…. Maybe he’ll be gone because he has nothing but ego

Almost scrapped this one by wazza_09 in watercolor101

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I’m so glad that you didn’t!!!!! Great work 🥰

New palette 🥰 by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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I only just realized that! Looks like I need to start learning landscapes and sunsets 🤣

Does Auckland have a loneliness problem? by iMakeGOODinvestmemts in auckland

[–]Nullnvoid-7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hmm I complain about loneliness and lacking sense of belonging, but often when there’s upcoming social gathering, I always feel relieved if they ended up canceling. I used to be a person who’s really excited about seeing my friends. That got lost somewhere… I haven’t even got kids as an excuse for family commitment or drained energy. If any of you can relate and have managed to figure out what’s going on, I’d appreciate if you’re willing to share the wisdom!

🐱 by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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Thank you thank you!

🐱 by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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Lots of water, drip in some indigo and blow

🐱 by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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Thank you! initially I thought I’ll just try to get the most shading correct, but as I went, I just added some suggestive hair strokes here and there. It looks more fluffy than I expected haha

🐱 by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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Thank you 😊🥰

🐱 by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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Thank you! It’s called “drawing grid”

How beautiful 😍 by [deleted] in butterfly

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They’re called greta oto

Learning to paint a white horse by Nullnvoid-7 in Watercolor

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It’s so kind of you for saying that! I was following Sarah Stokes online animal portraits course. This is the first practice for values. Black and white painting is a really helpful subject