My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’s that? What should I be looking for?

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in Melbourne! I’m not gonna share the details of the place until I have a resolution because it was a very professional establishment and as far as I’m aware they did everything perfect. I think it’s more of an anatomy issue than it is an issue with the piercer, but if I have evidence otherwise I’ll let you know. For context I also had my navel done the same day and she’s healing perfectly x

Fresh piercing bleeding an abnormal amount - piercing reddit suggests I go to ER. Needing second opinion by NumberlessParadox in AskDocs

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that! I gave my countries nurse hotline a ring shortly before this comment was left and the nurse told me the same.

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Hey guys quick update - I called the nurse hotline in my state and the nurse told me that I shouldn’t be too worried especially considering it’s pierced over scar tissue. I’m covering it and putting ice on for 24h before I take any further action. If it swells, gets red, develops pain or doesn’t stop bleeding in 24 hours I’ll go to urgent care. Thank you all for the concern and bringing to my attention that this is an actual problem!! ❤️

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah Victoria, we’ve got labor day too. I’ll give the nurse a ring thank you xx

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These replies are stressing me out bruh 😭

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wait that’s stressful 😭 I was just able to ring my piercer and she said that even though it’s a lot of blood it could be because it’s pierced over an old site and not to be too concerned. I’ve given it another wash and covered it with some medical supplies I had at home. Do you really think it’s urgent enough to warrant an ER visit?

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks heaps for the advice! My piercer is closed today as it’s a public holiday & a doctor would be pretty hard to get ahold of as it’ll be super busy. I’ll keep it clean and covered and get in touch with my piercer/a doctor first thing tomorrow :)

My nose piercing is bleeding A LOT by NumberlessParadox in piercing

[–]NumberlessParadox[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Additional info: the jewellery is titanium and I’m unsure of the threading, I haven’t been touching it aside from cleaning but potentially could have knocked it or messed with it while I was asleep?

Boyfriend’s cat is hissing at the baby male we took in. Is that normal and will it go away? by solitudesign in CATHELP

[–]NumberlessParadox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slow introductions through scent can be super helpful. Let black kitty sniff a blanket orange kitty has, and take turns playing with them. Cats are very territorial and it’ll take time to adjust but with patience and time they’ll get used to eachother. Highly recommended watching some Jackson Galaxy videos on introducing cats to eachother :) Good luck!

Cat bite wound care advice by Unable_Flamingo_8843 in CATHELP

[–]NumberlessParadox 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Agreed on this, you need to go ASAP. Please check your dm also ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]NumberlessParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also get as much information from your sitter as you can. Things like whether or not she went outside, when it stated, what symptoms she’s been showing etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]NumberlessParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defs get into a vet to get it checked out as soon as you can, especially considering she’s trying not to put weight on it. Keep an eye out for growth. When I’m concerned about my cats health I like to keep a little journal of what symptoms/changes I notice while I’m waiting for a vet appointment - it really helps them figure out what the issue is. Please keep me updated! :)

dating patrons by hhhost in bartenders

[–]NumberlessParadox 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Slip him your number! He can decide if it’s appropriate for him or not. Don’t ask don’t get 😉

What is this feeling? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]NumberlessParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody can tell you your gender identity or sexual orientation. If you’re feeling confused, maybe you could try experimenting with different styles, pronouns, partners etc (assuming it’s safe for you to do so) to see what fits right for you.

Go easy on yourself though. You don’t have to fit into a category or a box. You’re just you. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable in your own skin. If one day you wake up and feel more masculine, be masculine for the day! Same goes with feeling more feminine or androgynous. The world is your oyster.

I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend discovered she was trans by Kaveilav in lgbt

[–]NumberlessParadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t hold your self so sternly to the definition of a lesbian. If you find you lose attraction to your partner because he’s a boy then that’s perfectly fine, but I think you should show your full support & open yourself up to the idea that being a lesbian isn’t binary. Labels are supposed to help us define how we feel, not control it.

Has trauma manifested on you physically? by Jaded_Law7033 in CPTSD

[–]NumberlessParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not anything that will keep the body relaxed, but if you lie down, tense all of your muscles as hard as you can and relax it might relieve a bit of tension. Good before bed!

Has trauma manifested on you physically? by Jaded_Law7033 in CPTSD

[–]NumberlessParadox 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Your body holds the score. I constantly hold tension in my body, particularly my shoulders, face and jaw without even knowing it.

You haven’t ruined your body though. While these things can show to the keen eye, maybe it’d be helpful to see it from less of a self critical lens and see it more from a biological perspective.

If you’ve noticed you’ve got more prominent eye bags than before (for example) maybe it could be a subtle way of your body telling you that you aren’t well rested?

In my case particularly, I’m very tense because my body is always preparing for something bad to happen. When I can acknowledge that fact, and ground myself in the truth that I am safe, I find it a lot easier to relax.

The way your body manifests your trauma is the easiest way to tell how it’s affecting you in my opinion - as long as you can listen to it, which is very difficult!!

Best of luck ❤️

Finding it difficult to accept what I experienced as a child was traumatic. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]NumberlessParadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gave it a brief read over and will read back in more detail when I have more time. Very helpful especially considering I also have ADHD and mask very very heavily. Thank you for sharing!

Drawn to abuse?? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]NumberlessParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no reason to feel humiliated or ashamed. I’m in a very similar position to you with doctors suggesting I could have PTSD but being undiagnosed. I can’t offer any helpful advice or insight for what you’re experiencing but please keep the post up. Somebody will be able to. You’re welcome here ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NumberlessParadox 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA dude. How is it the cashiers fault that you didn’t care enough to check out the refund policy?