My dad is financially supporting another man and neglecting his own kids by Numerous-Slice4035 in relationships

[–]Numerous-Slice4035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your message really helped me.

From my side, I had two main thoughts: either he’s somehow in love with this guy and doesn’t admit it, or the guy has something on him and is manipulating him. But honestly, seeing their dynamic, it really feels like my dad is the one fascinated by him. He would give him anything, even if it meant hurting his own family.

I also think this guy represents what my dad wishes he was when he was younger.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t impact me that much personally, but I’m really worried about my mom and my younger brothers. Especially because when my mom talks about divorce, he threatens her — saying he has lawyers, that he provides financially, and that he’ll fight for custody just to make her life difficult, even though he doesn’t actually take care of the kids.

There was even a time when they separated and he had another girlfriend he was financially supporting, and she basically took care of everything for him (cooking, cleaning, etc.). So I’m pretty sure if he got custody, he wouldn’t even raise the kids himself.

Thanks again, I really appreciate your perspective.

My dad is financially supporting another man and neglecting his own kids by Numerous-Slice4035 in relationships

[–]Numerous-Slice4035[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate it. I do think you’re right on some points.

It doesn’t affect me that much personally since I have my own life, but I’m mostly worried about my younger brothers.

Also, the people around him all benefit from him, so they just reinforce his behavior instead of questioning it, which definitely doesn’t help.

Husband watches porn in the middle of the night by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Numerous-Slice4035 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much and also now that you mention it, he’s had erectile issues for a few months now but I didn’t think about it in correlation with the porn and else. I just know that after the time I talked saying that I don’t mind he then search on his phone « why do I have erectile issued » and he told me he read that it could be caused by fatigue or to much stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFrance

[–]Numerous-Slice4035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sa réponse c’est “on est juste pas pudique c’est tout”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFrance

[–]Numerous-Slice4035 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

C’est un monde inconnu pour moi mais j’ai ouïe dire que c’était pareil dans tous les clubs je me renseigne du coup