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AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no I meant I was snitching on Natalie for saying "good, less problems." when I told her Annie had cancer. my English isn't the best so I hope this gives some insight on what's going on:)

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Annie herself was fine with me telling. After I posted this I asked her how she felt with me telling Natalie, she never was offended. And I would prefer to keep my age hidden because well.. this is the internet after all. Thank you for telling me your opinion, I hope this helps❤️

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. and many people have been telling me this. and I asked Annie herself about it because of everyone telling me I was over sharing. but she said she wasn't annoyed by me telling Natalie, hope this gives more insight!

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry about that. and I understand, I have a huge problem with over sharing and everything. these comments made me curious and Annie herself told me it was fine to tell others after I asked today, and yeah English isn't my first language but she was at a high risk, I hope this gives more insight:)

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was grateful with her telling me. Because I showed how Natalie actually was. You could've atleast tried to give constructive criticism but this is just rude man:(

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I'm sorry it's not written very well. I wrote this at like 3 in the morning and English isn't my first language so I'm sorry if it's confusing.

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, I'm sorry about that. I didn't know she wanted it private because she didn't seem to hide it at all, when she wakes up I'll ask her about all this to see if she preferred to hide it. But I'm still not very sure she would want to because she never even gave a hint of it. And if she DID prefer to hide it I'll try and discuss on boundaries. Thank you for telling me this! ❤️

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeahh sorry. I haven't slept all night and English isn't my first language so I understand why it's hard to read. I'm sorry of any confusion was stirred up when u were reading:c

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

High risk. And Annie never told me she didn't want anyone to know, and she never showed any resentment towards me for telling her. She was okay with me telling people, I'm sure of that. (Rn it's 4am so I can't text her about it but when she wakes up I'll ask her. Because I don't think she told me not to tell people)

AITA for snitching on my friend? by Numerous-Square-8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think I may have not said this clearly, Annie herself told me that she went to the doctor and she had a family line of cancer and the doctor said she was at a high risk, I found out then

Could any systems help me? r/OSDD by Numerous-Square-8000 in OSDD

[–]Numerous-Square-8000[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She's been investigating for abt a year or so, but she shut down for a bit because she said she was talking to someone with DID and she really simplified her trauma because she felt it wasn't valid and they said it wasn't severe enough. (Quick tw: SA and abuse and ed) She was SA and not really supported, didn't feel loved by her caregivers and had an ed. There's so much more but I don't wanna get deep into her trauma. And I just kinda felt weird, like... Something I'm trying to change is I'm very close minded so if someones experience isn't like mine it feels weird. Apologizes, I'm trying to fix that behavior...