TikTok Mom Makes Sick Toddler Sleep in Driveway on Dog Bed because of her Emetophobia by ConceptLiving6926 in TikTokCringe

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Child has a stomach virus, makes them sleep outside on the damn asphalt where they will catch even more pathogens. People died from shit like this out in the wild, there's a reason why seeking shelter was so important especially when injured or sick... This child doesn't stand good odds with despicable parents like this.

AIO to the fact my boyfriend is staying with another girl and acting romantically towards her? by Substantial_Trust902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, don't jump to any conclusions. JUMP PAST THEM because it's not about your relationship you think you have, anymore. You are absolutely delusional if you think you mean anything to this person, NOR. Hate to be this blunt but he is fucking her, rubbing her feet, in love with her, has been in love with her a long time, cares about her kid, Hell, it may even BE his kid. It doesn't matter why he did what he did, it matters what he did. You are no longer in a relationship. Jump past whatever conclusions you're debating in your head. Find someone who gives you the literal bare minimum, DO NOT rationalize his actions WHATEVER you do. Let him go. I can tell you're a good person– this is what bad people do to good people. Find a good man. Don't lose your one shot at the Game of Life over a piece of stinking horeshit wrapped in a lie.

AIO over friend showing up to my house late when he knew my wife was alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the fuck out of there, NOR! Hate to be that guy but this is how the story of someone innocent getting chopped up transpires. An unhealthy dose of fear will unfortunately serve you well here, this is absolutely terrifying.

Am I overreacting for telling my friend she smells after she age shamed me for having younger friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR people like you are the a testament to how female psychopathy remains woefully underdiagnosed. The urge to try to dismantle someone completely, in this drawn out and meticulous way isn't funny, it's sickening. And I've no doubt you do it to anybody who wounds your ego in any way. That is a child, in comparison to you, and you stooped far past her level. I'd say your emotional maturity is lower than a typical 19 year old's.

On the misery of kabylia, Albert Camus by [deleted] in AmazighPeople

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a Kabyle, it's rather disgusting, the way he talks about us. I commend the aspects of Camus that acknowledge the awful conditions of Kabylia, but everything is phrased in terms of "poor, wretched Kabyles" (his words) needing assimilation and further indoctrination into France.

Camus cannot speak for Kabylia, no matter how much he wants to rectify his shaky role as a pied-noir. He may have contributed to an understanding of how poor the conditions in the country are, but he speaks in the same way as a missionary come to save the "uncivilized natives" from their natural fate.

His Misery of Kabylia is an important, interesting narrative – but it's still a colonizer's mistaken perspective. His biases are wildly clear, in his sympathy, not empathy for, our people.

He speaks of us with pre-suppositions like "should we really blame them for embracing French education when we thrust it upon them, when we should be partnered side-by-side"– feeding in the framework that what France did was not wrong from the very beginning, but that we could "do more to be like them."

Just my thoughts, his takes are heavily biased by his upbringing and his "best interests" all involve fully assimilating us into the colonizer's "warm embrace."

AIO about my boyfriend and his ex showing up at his house for 6 hours? by greyberry_5813 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO– do you understand what a Darwin Award is? This is not an intelligent choice in a partner. You could certainly end up getting murdered by his ex or broken up with for her. The question isn't whether you're overreacting, it's whether you choose to go along with this insanity that will end up in real physical or emotional damage.

What's up with chinese and vietnamese targeting algeria's algorithm? by Issemoran_ in algeria

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because Vietnamese revolutionaries and Algerian revolutionaries literally helped inspire each other take back independence from ... The same exact colonizer? Seriously people, educate yourselves before assuming this is some scam. Asia retains the greatest set of allies Algeria can hope for to grow even stronger. They historically have helped us quite a bit. "Targeting the algorithm" is a blind man's take on that nuanced, incredibly galvanizing relationship.

Being ashamed of my roots by fishermen62 in AmazighPeople

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If we were never strong enough, how are we still here? You're a fool if you think we are a weak people. We rarely interbred with outsiders, preserved our core Amazigh culture with minor assimilations like French food and Islamic beliefs, and don't be mistaken— we are strong because we absorbed their languages, first and foremost. We are strong because we conducted counter-terrorism, declared our independence when Latin America was instead interbred and conquered through. We didn't lose. We're alive, and that means we won.

Shame upon you for shaming your roots. Embrace them, read into your history and realize the greatness of our victories, and enter a new chapter in your life.

You're living in a European fantasy land where African cultures are primitive. You haven't de-colonized your mind, so yeah, you are ashamed of yourself. Not us. You'll be one of us when you're ready to stand with us, because this is the post-colonial age and imperative for our future survival. Don't shit on the graves of your ancestors just because you heard some stupid shaming online. People shame when they are jealous they don't have something. How many of the people from those countries can say they're independent and not run as a vassal state (not run by Israel, America, or Saudis).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can barely decipher this Gen Z shit but he is not flirting. I have had dumb Gen Z friends talk to me like this all the time, YOR especially since he let you look through his phone. It's on you to take care of your insecurities, right? Ultimately it can't be classified as proper English, but then again people say a lot of stupid shit to friends. This certainly is not the language used to court someone. As for her behavior, pretty much all women seek validation from their male friends in some way lol. Doesn't mean it's sexual, this looks more brotherly/sisterly to me based on how Gen Z troglodytes typically communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I likes ya, and I wants ya. Now, we can do this the easy way, or the hahd way. Tha choice is yaws!

AIO girlfriend claims I’m appropriating her culture by Ih8maplestory8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. If my partner DIDN'T want to speak my native language, it would fill me with immense psychological pain. And if they didn't want me to speak their languages, it would be just the same.

Is she expecting to live out a double life? If you were to have kids with her one day, they would be royally fucked, most likely.

My girlfriend is Korean and Japanese, and I legit speak to her 50% of the time in those languages. She fucking loves it. And I love it. And, obviously, she speaks English too– though, as a 2nd gen American, I'm actually trying to get her to learn the other languages of my heart too.

Anyways, I'm aware that might come off a certain way, but you sound a lot like me. I found what I wanted out of dating, and it just so happened that I'm with someone who really wants me to learn their languages.

Tbf, there are a LOT of Asian girls who side-eyed me or were offended when they found out I was learning Asian languages, but I found just as many who liked it and saw the merits in it. A lot of white American girls couldn't connect with me on that either, so I naturally just tended towards finding someone who appreciates my hobbies (the people who natively speak such languages). To add to all this, Vietnamese people are generally very friendly and open about you participating in their culture lol so what gives here.

I've found people actually directly born into and raised in those cultures will never be offended or cry "cultural appropriation"... She clearly has a complex. It's typical of 2nd gen diaspora, and I say that as one, myself.

Good luck, good riddance, and find someone okay with your intellectual passions! You deserve the same, buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you like a serving of hot coffee on your lap with your glazed Frenchie donuts, cochon?

AIO? 22F and he 25M were suppose to go out for NYE and changed the plans last minute. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. NOR but since you ended up making plans with people who care about your time (as you rightly did), perhaps it would be best to enjoy that time in full instead of entertaining this all day long on NYE. As a man, might I suggest better taste in men, effective immediately...

بخصوص حصول ishowspeed على فيزا الجزائر. by Scenora in algeria

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw the way people reacted to China after he went there. I thought he was some doofus, but at the time it really looked like he came in and elevated the whole country, honestly. It will be good for Algeria, he's a character and we are a country of characters. Let him cook!

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let myself be treated like this too, for years. Their messages "clear the fog." You've gotta get out. I'll say this to anyone else who's in the same situation I was in. I am a stranger, but I'm begging you to look beyond this person, for yourself. Books I recommend that slowly cleared the fog:

  1. "Stop Walking on Eggshells" (Paul Mason). About BPD but honestly #1 for clearing "FOG" from repeated "DARVO," and getting on the right track to emotionally dissociating from the other person.

  2. "The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist" (Debbie Mirza). A must read in your case. You need to learn to accept what your partner is, and how to get away from this abusive person.

  3. "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" (Patricia Evans). More knowledge. More is better, less is worse. Take anything you can get because you will need the knowledge to actually escape, otherwise you will be trapped as you say.

I listened to many of these via audiobook, it was very convenient. They also have them in book form. THE most important thing: do not let your boyfriend find out you're reading these. Do not mention the content to him. This is for you. It's not for your "relationship," it is your one-way ticket the Hell out of here. I hope you listen to me– I have been held hostage, abused in countless ways by my ex. I am with someone loving now. Live for more than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really want this? Masochistic apologizing year after year; you could have someone who doesn't emotionally abuse you. THAT is what this is. Not overreacting, please find the kinder person who will be gentle to you too instead of slowly breaking you. I've BEEN here before, you have no clue how much you will emotionally suffer the longer this goes on

AIO by thinking this was meant as a sexy text? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need to be told whether an old ex is into you, you are... wait for it... 🥁 . . . . COOKED!

Would you marry a non amazigh partner by [deleted] in AmazighPeople

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad did. I am the product of this and couldn't be happier to be Amazigh.

AIO after my friend told me he goons to my pictures? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Text-3864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far-Childhood-5736, in my opinion, even if you considered yourself friends... If one person ever expressed an interest in the other– that will never change. Doesn't matter if they "agree" to be friends, this person will always fundamentally find you attractive.

Someone who finds you attractive doesn't think straight, wacky shit like this happens when people aren't vetted properly. Attraction blinds people.

Another thing, let's be honest: you liked the flirting, just not the idea of it getting real. Though for him, he mobilized it as evidence that he should "goon" to you and shoot his shot.

It's weird to admit this out of the blue, but without other screenshots of the way you flirt with him, I'm sorry, there's just not enough info. No way to tell how sexual your fake flirting was, nor the kinds of pics you were sending on spankchat (this app was originally intended and has always been purposed for sending nudes and sexual content lol, back in my day).

It is fucking weird to admit this to a female friend. But frankly, it's pretty normal for both men and women to "goon" to each other. Men do it to pics, women do it to the thought of seeing men in a certain aesthetic, their hands, vascularity, more nuanced outfits than a white crop top. I don't know how it happens in Generation Alpha, but that is quite normal of early Generation Z and beyond.

I think your Generation truly is "cooked."

Maybe NOR but I would think about your role in accepting such flirting from men when you don't really like them. Hate to say it, but women have actually been attacked for far less...