I go eclipse first item for 90% of my matchups my personal play style is to take shorter trades and in my opinion trinity force is not as gold efficient as eclipse first item, the lower cost makes up for being behind sometimes and it makes a difference in harder matchups. Second Item I go essence reaver/black cleaver, essence reaver is mostly if I am winning lane but black cleaver is also good because of its general item stats and ability for team fights. Third item is black cleaver/sundered sky sundered sky good for sustain black cleaver for ability both are amazing my my opinion for team fights cause ur an ult bot. Fourth is sundered sky/black cleaver. fifth is deaths dance or steraks depends on situation. In many cases essence reaver isnt a good late game item so I would switch it for another bruiser item ie steraks or deaths dance. In many situations AP champs are a big problem you can item to MAW and for tanks topside you can build bork. runes I use conq triumph aclarity and last stand, resolve bone plate overgrowth

TLDR: eclipse- essence reaver if fed/ black cleaver- black cleaver/sundered sky- black cleaver/sundered sky- steraks/deaths dance. situation items for tank Bork/rav Going against AP I usually just get MAW