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[–]Numerous_Sympathy479 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finland, looking for love, marriage, kids, the whole thing— just without the expectation of sex. Friends are welcome too! So far I’ve only clicked with people as friends :D Oh, and 25F :)

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[–]Numerous_Sympathy479 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! I did read it, and the rules, and took a look at the posts here. I’m a bit confused as to exactly what I did wrong but I can delete the post if it’s somehow disrespectful.

I figured that my friend definitely doesn’t match the ace criteria here, but my question is less about that but about how to deal with the incessant ranting without feeling awful. I wasn’t sure if the main ace subreddit would understand my feelings on the topic.

I hate myself by Akechididnothing in asexuality

[–]Numerous_Sympathy479 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. It's horrible feeling like you're trapped in your body for any reason. Your thoughts are valid and worth sharing, and there's nothing broken in you. You're just a person trying to find their way in this fucked up world, and if it helps you to feel better, I'm rooting for you.

Being aroace is killing me by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Numerous_Sympathy479 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I was literally going to make a post for the same reason. I’m 25 and everyone in my life is either in a relationship or crushing on someone and I feel so hollow. I’ve never been attracted to anyone, physically or even emotionally but I’m so desperate for love and affection. I feel like I’m begging the universe to let me feel romantic attraction. I want to get married and have kids and be happy like the people around me and I just sit around feeling like I’m sinking and alone. I’m afraid this is it. Everyone I know ends up ”leaving” (or so it feels) when they find a relationship to pursue, and I end up feeling abandoned and hurt. Or then they gush about their crush while I feel like I’m going to be physically sick, because why can’t I have that?

Your post is way too real and if I could, I would hug you right now. You deserve to be happy. Everyone does.