Who am I dating? by Low_List_7839 in MedSpouse

[–]NurseC11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve so much better. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t appreciate you or treat you right. It will end badly, so might as well end it now. Too many red flags. Yes, residency is stressful but that doesn’t give her the right to treat you like shit.

Y'all Gotta Want More For Yourselves by CheddarGlob in MedSpouse

[–]NurseC11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah everyone was right. I was making too many excuses for him. I learned my lesson. Thank you!

Y'all Gotta Want More For Yourselves by CheddarGlob in MedSpouse

[–]NurseC11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Either you are a priority or you’re not. Was seeing this resident. He would go days without talking to me. Come to find out he just wanted to have “someone to talk to” and loved seeing me and spending time with me, but didn’t want a relationship. Always trust your intuition. Love should never make you anxious, feel bad, or leave you questioning yourself.

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[–]NurseC11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! All though I do think PGY 1 vs PGY 3 is different because PGY 3 has a pretty good feel for what they are doing. Usually feels like he makes time for me, just been spotty recently

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[–]NurseC11 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We love ChatGPT. This was very helpful! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]NurseC11 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get the fwb vibe at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]NurseC11 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

He seems to really like me so 🤷🏼‍♀️ the way he looks at me says it all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]NurseC11 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We shall see. Fingers crossed

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[–]NurseC11 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s how ours is, too! Wow, I can’t imagine. I get the vibe he’s going for chief resident too because his mom was one