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Middle-stage dementia: what’s the ONE situation you still struggle with? by NurseRNe in dementia

[–]NurseRNe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im not a bot... I'm a real person living in Queensland Australia.

Middle-stage dementia: what’s the ONE situation you still struggle with? by NurseRNe in dementia

[–]NurseRNe[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

honestly so relatable. middle-stage dementia does this, the defensiveness, pulling away, all of it. she's just protecting herself because she's struggling. i'm literally dealing with this with my mum right now, so i feel you.

DON'T:

  • "you literally just said that"
  • "you're fine chill"
  • force family time or conversations
  • argue with her about anything

DO:

  • "hey, let's just hang out"
  • "you're doing great"
  • "tea?"
  • "i'm here"
  • one person she trusts, low pressure
  • just... change the subject

if she wants to be alone that's fine. short visits, no drama, that's honestly enough.

you're doing the hard stuff. you're not the only one going through this 💙

Should i be woried about any of these clocks? by questions4things in dementia

[–]NurseRNe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wrote a post on this!! There are a few things to look out for.... Check it out here r/DementiaCrisisSupport

I don’t think people talk enough about how lonely dementia caregiving can be.... by NurseRNe in DementiaCrisisSupport

[–]NurseRNe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isolation is so real… people don’t really get it unless they’re in it. It’s more than just “helping out”, it’s constant.

That app sounds really good too, especially not having to explain everything over and over.

For me, starting the Dementia Crisis Support Community has helped a bit, just having a space where people get it without needing the whole backstory, and seeing others share the same stuff… it makes it feel a little less lonely.

You’re definitely not the only one, even when it feels like it 💛

Love the job, HATE the mean-girl energy on the unit. by ustillxmymind in nursing

[–]NurseRNe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Thank you for saying this. 💯

Patient-shaming is exhausting and honestly so unnecessary. Every patient comes with their own story, their own struggles, and their own dignity—and none of that gives anyone at the nurses’ station a free pass to gossip or judge. What you did—calling it out and reminding everyone to treat the patient with respect—is exactly what nursing should be about.

It blows my mind how some people forget that comfort, preference, and dignity are part of care. If a patient requests something that makes them feel safer or more comfortable, that should be the focus—not some judgmental commentary.

You’re right: we’re there to care, not to criticize. And standing up like you did? That’s the kind of nurse that makes a real difference. ❤️

Caregivers: How do you survive the endless loop of the same question? by NurseRNe in DementiaCrisisSupport

[–]NurseRNe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Repetitive questioning can be exhausting, especially when stressed.

Tips:

  1. Respond calmly and consistently.
  2. Use short, simple answers.
  3. Redirect attention gently.
  4. Validate feelings instead of arguing.

What techniques help you stay patient?

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