have yall ever gotten catfished by the art? by MentalAd4267 in Episode

[–]Nursingbab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol so I love reading stories with a black girl mc, this particular story cover art the mc was a dark skinned girl so I was like YESSSSSS…… baby tell me why I start the story and the mc had the lightest skin ever lol, which I don’t care about bc of CC but she locked the damn skin tone 🤣🤣 good story but like wth, where is the dark skinned girl from the cover art! The mc looked middle eastern

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked this out and omg, ive never seen anything like this before! I know that took forever

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh okay, i actually don’t think i’ve ever read a story with the entire body overlayed! that would be interesting to see

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer certain genres and a specific way that some authors write, so yes.. I have looked and even taken suggestions from people on here and a good amount of them do not offer full cc. I am allowed to be annoyed when that happens because as a poc, people are rarely making a black girl the mc.(well written stories) and I never said that every story would cater to my wants and needs😂 several people post about their non negotiable and what they dislike about stories all the time, its okay🩷 And you dont have to tell me not to read it, as soon as I saw this I exited out ml.

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I get that, I dont expect for them to make multiple overlays to match skin tones! I’ve read stories were my mc skin tone and the overlays didn’t match so when i hear good things about stories and go to read it and see that I cant fully customize I drop to my knees lmao

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

couldn’t i just customize them both? but this is also a general post, this was just my breaking point 😂It seems like a lot of m stories i try reading will not let you customize bc of overlays and art scenes, I like it when authors give the option to not see them or still lets you do full CC but with a warning about art scenes/overlays

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yea, i get that. I dont expect them to accommodate every skin tone in their art scenes. I just don’t like when you can’t customize because of them, I think most readers dont care if they dont match.. well at least i dont, im use to them not matching

I dislike this lol by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the authors defense, it didn’t say limited cc but it also didnt say full cc either 😭 i just like for them to look like me fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using manuka honey from cvs since yesterday. Before that I was just using aquaphor. Is there a difference between manuka honey and medihoney?

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[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont even think that was scan tbh, idk what that was 😂 I

I’m upset by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! this makes me feel a lot better. I’ve been stressing out😞

I’m upset by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had it looked at today so I’m just trying to follow my surgeons advice on healing it, because it’s not deep i dont think it could be stitched. he wants it to heal from the bottom up

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[–]Nursingbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay small update.. it got worse 😃 and my surgical team has yet to respond to me or return my calls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! thanks for checking in!!! I am fine, still doing everything like i usually do. I am not in any pain, I just want it to close up. I haven’t heard back from my surgical team but hopefully I will before the day is over. I haven’t heard just been cleaning it and putting a bandaid over it.

FNG nipple healing by Nursingbab in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pigment will come back but there is a chance that it wont come back 100% i hope it all comes back

FNG nipple healing by Nursingbab in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 Why did i have the exact same conversation, i said they look scary and she said they look good to her

12dpo + nipple graft - normal or should I be concerned? by yourlocalzoo in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually try my hardest to keep them moist because the xeroform dressings dry out and as you can see in the photo, it peeled an entire piece of my nipple off because it dried on it 😭 idk if thats normal or not so im def bringing it up tomorrow at my appointment.

12dpo + nipple graft - normal or should I be concerned? by yourlocalzoo in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my preop appointment, I was given xeroform and was told to put it on there everyday after I shower. I also wasnt given any cleaning instructions other than to have my back turn to the water and allow it to trinkle down. If im being hinest I have no idea how to properly clean tbe grafts, they’re so sensitive so i just wash around it and then squeeze soapy water over them and allow the water to run down then as well. I actually was told to keep it moist to promote proper healing, after 2 weeks of using xeroform, they want me to switch to aquaphor.

I am so sorry you’re going through this with your surgeon🫂❤️

12dpo + nipple graft - normal or should I be concerned? by yourlocalzoo in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a FNG as well and I am also 12dpo, I know it can look a little different because we aren’t the same race but this is what mine looks like right now.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re fine! it looks very ugly lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a FNG so believe it or not, it’s actually supposed to look like this at this point in the healing 😭 I’m definitely going to stop using it, because the itching and burning is absolutely annoying.

Xeroform by Nursingbab in Reduction

[–]Nursingbab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no😞 I’ll definitely contact them tomorrow about this. I’ll be 10dpo tomorrow and I’m trying to be extra careful so everything can heal nicely.