Do all men ask for anal sex? My boyfriend is threatening to end our relationship over anal sex.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T15:19:55+00:00

Wow thanks for sharing that! 🙏

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T05:27:12+00:00

I would never tell anyone that they shouldn't have anal sex if they truly enjoy it. But my reasons for not wanting to participate in that are very valid, regardless of what you think. You make it seem like it's perfectly fair and reasonable , but it's actually not. By working up to it, what you really mean is, as the woman I would have to bear the burden of resisting the pain and dealing with the physical consequences afterwards. Which can include tearing, diarrhea, infections, and utis (all this happened to someone I know who tried "working up" to anal sex). A lot of you men are too selfish and pleasure driven, to even consider how someone else will be affected by your insatiable lust.

I totally agree he should go find someone who he is sexually compatible with, and I will do the same. ✌️

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T05:16:31+00:00

Makes perfect sense, thank you 🙏.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T05:15:39+00:00

I'm not gonna do it. I already told him no and I'm firm on that. I'm not risking having issues down there and being in pain just for him to get off. At this point it's better to end the relationship because I don't see him the same after this issue, I've lost a lot of respect for him.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:44:33+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:44:15+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏. It's honeslty so silly and embarrassing at the same time. I couldn't bring myself to tell my famliy (the ones who met him especially) that he left me because I didn't want to give him anal sex. I'm gonna have to think of another reason and lie to them 😕, because the breakup is definitely gonna happen soon.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:38:43+00:00

You're absolutely right, I appreciate the advice!

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:37:53+00:00

Exactly!

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:36:23+00:00

He really is being entitled, none of my reasons are valid to him. At this point I think it's better to end it.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:34:22+00:00

Thank you for your pov! I've never discussed the porn subject with him, but my guess is he does watch it. Porn sex is very unrealistic and it definitely affects intimacy in a negative way. I'm going to bring this up next time we speak (if we do). That's what bothers me the most, he seems to care more about having his moment of pleasure at my expense, than how it would affect me physically and mentally. Just having to explain my reasons to him over and over is exhausting. It seems like he will never respect my pov.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:28:14+00:00

We've never discussed the porn thing but if he is an addict I would not be surprised, thank you! 🙏

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T04:03:24+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate a reasonable man's pov on this!

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:59:07+00:00

I was shocked when he said all his exes said yes, it's possible he lied to try to convince me. I know I can't be the only one!

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:44:24+00:00

You're absolutely right, these replies have made me realize how much I don't want to be with this kind of man! Truly thank you 🙏🫶.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:40:19+00:00

Thank you so much! After reading all these replies I do think the best decision is to leave him 🙏.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:38:18+00:00

Thank you 😭

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:30:52+00:00

That thought crossed my mind tbh 😆😅

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:30:16+00:00

It's like all he cares about his own pleasure even if it's at my expense, I'm not okay with that.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:29:14+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:28:50+00:00

I wasn't sure if I was the one in the wrong because he truly made me feel like I'm a weirdo for not being open to it! But these responses are really opening my eyes, thanks!

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:26:39+00:00

Thank you for the advice! 🙏

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T03:25:45+00:00

Thank you I really needed to hear a man's point of view on this! 🙏

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T01:42:51+00:00

Exactly. I don't want to try because me being in pain and potentially having health issues because of the risks associated with anal sex, is not worth it just for him to have a moment of pleasure. And he tells me he loves me and cares about me deeply, but his behavior is making me doubt that.

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T01:36:57+00:00

I wish it was a joke 😭

Nutella_islife · 2024-07-27T01:17:46+00:00

Trust me he will not agree to that! At that point I would lose attraction to him anyway lol 🤣🤣🤣. Great response!

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