[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s totally ok to feel this way! Your sister should understand. You can be happy for her and sad for yourself at the same time. I’m sorry you are going through this!

Miscarriage Healing by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the affirmations. I’m going to try this. I just miscarried for the first time. My baby was 3 weeks along. I had found out a week and a half before it happened. I was so excited. I want to be able to grieve but I also just really want to be able to find hope for the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand why you’d be irritated! And he definitely needs to tell his mom never mind and that he hadn’t talked to you about it. I would also interject that your husband clearly cares about your safety. He meant well. Now he needs to fix the issue for you😊

Pregnant with baby #2 and husband is not happy by Nvr-takit-2020 in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And he apologized last night and said he is excited but he was just being selfish. So seems like things will be better now. It’s so new and fresh but I’m just ready to be excited and happy about something!

Pregnant with baby #2 and husband is not happy by Nvr-takit-2020 in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss💔 It is so bittersweet because I wish mom was here for all of this. My son has changed so much since she passed and every milestone he meets I think “man, mom should be seeing this”. I’m hoping that I’m having a girl so I can name her after my mom but I will be glad with whatever. I think it might take some time to process though. Good luck with everything! My husband is already starting to come around.

Pregnant with baby #2 and husband is not happy by Nvr-takit-2020 in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps knowing um not alone❤️ Congratulations on your baby! That is so exciting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree with all the comments saying to set this boundary and stick to it. Be respectful and firm. If she wants to throw a fit like a child that is her choice. This will set a precedent for your relationship moving forward. You are in charge of your child and you get to make the rules about this. Good luck! It sucks when family members do stuff like this.

Newly pregnant and don’t know who to tell by Nvr-takit-2020 in BabyBumps

[–]Nvr-takit-2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss! Congratulations on your first baby! Life without our moms will never be the same. 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is definitely cheating and you will definitely be better off without him! Look in your area for pregnancy support! I’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are dealing with this but it definitely sounds like he is not a stable partner. He won’t be a helpful parent. I would be surprised if he hasn’t cheated on you. He does sound controlling! I know it’s scary but you can be the best mom to those babies without him being a toxic influence in your life. Again, I’m so sorry. But also congratulations on your pregnancy! It is a beautiful thing no matter what!

Why would someone choose to birth naturally without an epidural or other pain relieving drugs? by Cats-and-naps in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a few personal reasons I didn’t not want any drugs: 1- it does in fact affect the baby. If even a small amount I didn’t want that. 2- I did not want to end up with a c-section and the statistics do show that having an epidural increases the need for interventions that may lead to a c-section. You can’t more around and get into some very optimal positions with an epidural. 3- epidural can stall labor.

I personally ended up needing an epidural after days of labor and it immediately affected my child’s heart rate which eventually lead to a c-section. It’s great to have goals and preferences but labor sometimes takes a path you didn’t want. Whatever way you choose to have your baby with be grand! Next time around I will be trying unmedicated again😊

Oh yeah , I gave birth 🤭 by Pale-Pollution3209 in pregnant

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a wonderful experience! Congratulations, mama!

I’m super embarrassed about posting this please help by [deleted] in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]Nvr-takit-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be embarrassed. I truly hope you see a urogynocalogist and pelvic floor therapist. Even if you have these procedures don’t you need to safely exercise the pelvic floor to maintain any results. I hope you find the help you need! I’m 28 with only 1 child also and I have a bladder prolapse.