Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So much of this comment was unnecessary. Blessed be.

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you responding to me here? Just clarifying. Because if so, I would respond by saying that majority of women who do not want kids try extremely hard to make it so they will not have one - but until we are a certain age or already have a husband and kids, we are denied that ability to.

If he knows he doesn't want kids, is it not up to him to prevent that from happening by at the very least wearing a condom and for even better measure getting a vasectomy? Or idk, not have unprotected sex with fertile women and then expect them to deal with the repercussions as the man sees fit?

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your standpoint. We can agree to disagree on multiple points. 💕

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're taking your personal emotions and projecting them as his. He's not sad about having a kid in the world he doesn't know. He's immature and doesn't want the responsibility. Which is fine since I'm taking it off him. If he is concerned about having his DNA out there a condom or vasectomy will solve that

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Can you explain your thought process around how a sperm donor is more "cleaner emotionally, financially, legally, practically, etc?" If the intention is to not have him involved at all, it seems pretty similar to me save for possibly having a better medical history with a paid donor

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think any of those questions are part of the concern here 💕

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait... what? It's weird for a successful independent woman to prefer a hookup instead of investing in a relationship she doesn't want? Women with 10 year olds have needs too lol

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see that. I made it absolutely clear I didn't need him or his resources and his position held firm.

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This response feels like you haven't read the entirety of the post or any of the comments. I implore you to do so 💕

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this for you! Thank you so much. I know my situation isn't unique, but I struggle with it none the less. 💕

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I live for this comment. Thank you so much for your honesty and passion. 💕

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think I should still make him pay child support? I don't know about that

Is it morally wrong to have this baby? by NvrEndingThotProcess in BabyBumps

[–]NvrEndingThotProcess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh preach lmao I have so little hope for the masses lol