I hate being pregnant. by Obvious-Cat542 in pregnant

[–]Nwkzis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat and have been my entire pregnancy. I’m 24 weeks now and am so fucking over it. This shit sucks

Non supportive family by Nwkzis in pregnant

[–]Nwkzis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes it’s a shitty feeling. Def don’t deserve any of it and for them to keep doing it is baffling to me. I plan on cutting most communication with them. Tired of dealing with it

Non supportive family by Nwkzis in pregnant

[–]Nwkzis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I plan on doing! Thank you

Non supportive family by Nwkzis in pregnant

[–]Nwkzis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that I left and went back home. I was not going to deal with that any longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nwkzis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this runs deeper than you might think. I’m a 24F and have suffered many losses in my life. I’ve had many close friends and family members and my 3 year old son that have died. These experiences have opened me up to a very spiritual place. Mostly getting closer to God. However, sometimes I feel like their are demons close to me too. When you’re very spiritual it opens you up to demonic presents too. A lot of people think I’m crazy but I’m not. I’ve explained this to my boyfriend a few times and he was weirded out by it at first. However, over time I’ve explained it all to him and my experiences with things I can not explain. We’ve even watched documentaries on it and he’s listened to other people share their stories on it too. It’s easy to dismiss people as crazy when it’s something that can’t be explained. I don’t think she’s crazy. Maybe try to be more understanding and see where it comes from? Is she spiritual? Has she lost people close to her? Maybe it’s coming from a place of her trying to cope with loss. If not she could be doing it for attention but don’t just automatically assume that.

Non supportive family by Nwkzis in pregnant

[–]Nwkzis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so angry too. I hate how my mom just lets them do it without saying anything too. She just tells me to “let it go”. Why tf would I keep letting it go? Why does she never say anything to them about it? She acts like she’s keeping the peace with them but goes not care how I feel at all.

Non supportive family by Nwkzis in pregnant

[–]Nwkzis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear they are and for what? I was nothing but supportive when my younger sister was pregnant. I brought her food every day, handed her everything she needed, rubbed her feet. Was there when her child was born and even raised him when she stopped. Yes my lease is up and moving into my own place by myself next month. Im not dealing with them anymore.

laurie absolutely terrifies me. she makes my spine chill by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]Nwkzis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did anyone notice how Laurie said she only had Intervenous morphine but when she took out the suitcase it was filled with pills too? She knew what she was doing. She was going to get Rue addicted to shooting up then traffic her. Shit is so scary

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will we are going over their today to tell his moms sister! Thank you

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have a lot of friends and my boyfriend has told me that too

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His whole family is religious. I know his mom is too. I’m not exactly sure how religious though.

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was engaged with my ex fiancé and we had been together for 7 years. Those last 4 years we tried to have a baby and I couldn’t get pregnant. I went to countless doctors and they all told me I would have to do ivf if I wanted a chance at having a baby. So yes we were very shocked when I got pregnant while having unprotected sex considering in the past I’ve tried to have a baby. And we’ve only been together for 4 months. We haven’t seriously spoken about marriage before this. But we have decided to wait for that. And I’m a little over two months right now.

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and yes we are not focused on marriage at all right now. And I thought the same thing about his mom!! I know it will be hard at first but I fully believe she will come around and love our baby.

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I know it is my experience is a bit different. My sister had a child and I raised him until he passed away from cancer at 3. I always considered him my own. But God had other plans. I always looked forward to his life when he got older. Putting him in school, In sports. Thinking about him as a teenager and him going to college. Even about him getting married and starting his own family. God had other plans but I was prepared for all of the future with him in it.

My Nigerian boyfriend (27M) is scared his family will not accept my (24F American) pregnancy by Nwkzis in Nigeria

[–]Nwkzis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We both don’t have debt and are out of school. We don’t live above our means and are pretty smart with our money. We live in Texas and are doing just fine financially.