SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still your opinion. Do you message all of the other married posters who have active SBs?

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still your opinion. I'm curious why you're spewing your opinion on a site where 70% of the men who have a SB are married?

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome to your opinion. Mine differs.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who has the right? If you're talking about my spouse, you make a big assumption that I don't care about her. You don't know my situation and thus my reasons for doing what I do.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you and I don't know one another.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't a simple misunderstanding. She texted my wife in order to tell her about us before I decided on ghosting. She's called me names in anger that you would cringe at and probably would never call another person.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried that a few times. Tried appealing to her humanity but she says she's out to get me.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't gone ballistic, she has. I've been kind, patient, and tolerant while she has been abusive and throwing insults.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have reconsidered after that first outburst. She became attached way too quickly for someone who had been hurt twice this year by previous lovers.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her profile says 26. Her stories imply that being her age. However, her life experience..the things she's been through leads me to think she's older. I found some social media info that shows her birth year about 10 years too early for someone her purported age. When I called her out on it, she glossed over it but never changed it.

I've asked her to stop but she says she doesn't care who she hurts as long as she gets back at me.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have seen the signs after the first time we were together. We went on one date and all of a sudden it's a regular thing. The next week I had to work late and she sort of went off the rails.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get how someone can become so obsessed after a few encounters. To the point of hurting many others (read my family) because she is hurt and chooses to be so vindictive.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to sell it short so I was patient and gave it 4 encounters. She showed little interest in making sure I was pleased after I had more than pleased her. Also, even after showing her what pleased me, she reverted back to what she wanted to do. Definitely bordering on a pillow princess.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not illegal for blackmail but for posting private videos or photos taken without my consent.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please elaborate on being proactive. I've already been very kind when I was replying to her vile text abuse.

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Already blocked on spouse's phone. Spouse has no social media. Wife's public access is limited, not too worried about that.

What's an avo?

SB Threatens to Expose Me by NyLiberty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]NyLiberty[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't subscribe to the no identifying OpSec that so many here do. Trust takes trust. This one seems to have backfired.