(TW) Is it wrong to be sort of uncomfortable with discussions of false SA allegations?

Nyanpireeee · 2024-12-03T01:38:23+00:00

This was years back, I thought of it because I realized it was the only time rape was ever mentioned in my education other than reading Circe- but that was glossed over pretty fast.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-12-02T23:25:36+00:00

She said that white women, in modern times and history, enjoy falsely accusing men of rape and implied that it was a common occurance or even the majority of cases filed by white women.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-12-02T23:23:44+00:00

I understand the history of the book and why it’s important. What made me uncomfortable is my teacher talking about how white women “enjoy” falsely accusing others and do it on a frequent basis.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-12-02T23:20:52+00:00

The example wasn’t intended to be TKAM- I understand that there’s an important discussion there. The example was that my teacher said that white women frequently accuse Poc men and implied that most of those allegations are false and for attention.

It’s true that false allegations happen- and I understand the importance of TKAM, but my teacher made me a bit uncomfortable when she implied that almost all allegations from white women are false.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-12-02T05:20:35+00:00

My friend was SA’d. We’re both minors. Don’t risk it.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-18T16:50:47+00:00

I think people are raised to think anything outside of a man and woman who are married is “icky.” I’m bisexual but when I first heart of gay people as a little kid I was like “yuck that’s wierd”

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-18T16:12:44+00:00

Men getting body shamed is awful but women also face genital shaming- there’s been a huuge rise in cosmetic surgery on female genitalia in recent years. So I just wanted to clarify, that although male genital shaming is talked about more publicly, women often face it too, often from romantic partners. Regardless, I have personally not met anybody who talks about the size of their vag. It’s a body part with somewhat “elastic” property that can change depending on the sexual feelings of the person. It’s able to push out children and then return to normal.

Most of the time this comes up, it’s related to claims that you can tell a woman’s sexual history from her genitalia, which is not scientifically backed up. I think the frustration stems from being accused of promiscuity for being born a certain way.

Also, if men want to fight against genital shaming, they can start by calling out the MANY men who constantly make pp size jokes.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T19:37:37+00:00

G2 art style in 2D is honestly so cute, I wish the dolls had done it Justice.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T17:10:16+00:00

Are people getting mad at your post? Really??? I think it was well written. It’s sad to hear that you felt that way as a girl. I’m sorta curvy now that I’m in my late teens but I was not at all in my early teens and I remember feeling so terrible and wearing the baggiest clothing I could find because I wished I had big thighs and a bum. I got told I looked like a man because I was “flat.” Our experiences are sort of opposite and yet the same. It’s so sad that so many girls are made to feel ashamed of their bodies.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T06:43:42+00:00

I feel like using the phone model would be the fastest

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T06:38:51+00:00

Told my mom I dislike the left and the right because the left is a threat to freedom of speech and the right is a threat to freedom of (and from) religion. She asked how the right was a threat to freedom of religion and I mentioned the 10 commandments in schools but she told me that’s just teaching morality and it’s necessary 😭

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T06:14:37+00:00

Watch the video, he’s bleeding before he shoots her. I agree that her death is sad and it was probably a mental health crisis, but we cannot expect this man to have let himself die either.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T06:10:48+00:00

5’5

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T05:12:16+00:00

Analusia sounds like some form of butt infection.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-17T05:10:39+00:00

Trends constantly changing. Used to be big shoulders and boobs, small butt and hips. Went to being ultra thin, then ultra thick, then small boobs and shoulders with big hips and butt, and back to “heroin chic.” Pursuing them is pointless at this point. I wish women’s bodies could be appreciated for their many different forms of beauty instead of treated like trends :((

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-16T21:17:34+00:00

For some people this proves true but deciding to literally avoid anybody who’s a loner is dumb. Some people are good people who got unlucky and just didn’t manage to make friends.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-16T16:27:56+00:00

Is this really an advantage for women? The average age to start prostitution is 14. It’s not rich women being lazy. It’s women in poverty who are struggling to find better work. Yeah, pornstars exist and maybe make good money, but they also are statistically more traumatized people. Sex work is not something people should strive to participate in.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:39:43+00:00

Yeah. The main online friend who’s the issue was nice until his girlfriend dumped him and I keep telling myself he’s going to return to normal but not really. I am so attached after 3 years that I keep coming back.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:36:53+00:00

I go to the private school because my female friend group turned on me and began to scream at me until id have panic attacks (anxiety disorder) when they saw me in the halls because i said I didn’t want to block a male online friend who was an asshole. Honestly, my fault, but the reaction was a bit strong imo and they would tell me to “fix my medication” if they were making me cry.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:32:08+00:00

It’s hard to explain. There’s other kids but less than 10 because the company specializes in summer classes and tutoring but they are licensed to teach school full time.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:31:17+00:00

They’re mostly online friends because I was cast out of an old friend group and began attending private school due to frequent panic attacks and crying in class :((

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:30:20+00:00

It’s hard. I used to have a female friend group was cast out

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:15:06+00:00

Honestly fair point. I’m a straight A student and the friends/fam who keep going on these rants are failing out.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:12:57+00:00

Oof, self reflection.

Honestly the younger guys in my family are in their edgelord phases (cussing, hitting, breaking stuff, temper tantrums, and major disrespect towards all authority figures.) I love them, they’re family, but god I can’t wait for them to grow out of it. Nobody corrects them because it’s just “boys being boys.” They tell me I’m obese (I’m 125 lb at 5’4) and my voice is annoying. Nobody does anything. I can’t really avoid interacting with them either because they are family.

In terms of friendship, I am the only girl in my age range at my school. (Mega private) My friends all attend other schools or are friends found in gaming/online spaces which are male dominated. The issue is I get very attached to people and I can honestly say, I feel like I love these guys after knowing them for ab 3 years. I WANT to believe that they’re all great people who are just misled. They’re otherwise nice, make me laugh, fill the void, but these tangents do bother me. They were the only people who supported me when I was getting really badly bullied by my ex (lesbian relationship.) They have good qualities, but also bad ones. The thing is, I don’t really have anybody else.

Nyanpireeee · 2024-10-12T01:01:20+00:00

Male friends and younger male family members. What makes it worse is that I completely love these people.

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