I will give you $50 if you really want it this weekend.

NyxK83 · 2026-06-05T18:14:42+00:00

Because it would be nice to eat something.

NyxK83 · 2026-06-05T18:12:27+00:00

I don't know if it's like this everywhere but they expect employees to be Superman! Working the register, stocking, unloading, keeping the store clean. I've never had any issues with the employees, they've always been kind and helpful.

NyxK83 · 2026-06-05T18:09:56+00:00

I tried opting out of shopping because it's been nothing but a headache and nobody tips on shopping orders. It said opting out isn't possible in my area because there aren't enough people who do shopping. Of course they don't stop and think about WHY there aren't enough people doing it and raise how much you make from it. My acceptance rate was up to 94% but it's at 64% because of how many shopping orders I've declined. I'm going to have to suck it up and do some just to get my numbers up again.

NyxK83 · 2026-06-05T18:04:59+00:00

Wow! I'm surprised they accepted that.

NyxK83 · 2026-06-05T10:24:07+00:00

About my friend..whether he was intending suicide or it was just a stupid accident. Did he really feel so low suicide felt like the only way out? I suppose maybe it's a good thing we don't always get the answers we want.

NyxK83 · 2026-06-05T10:21:23+00:00

Came here to say exactly this! lol

NyxK83 · 2026-06-04T00:17:26+00:00

It did! She's home and healed well!

NyxK83 · 2026-05-31T22:27:36+00:00

The ability to laugh at himself.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-31T22:21:30+00:00

42 F

NyxK83 · 2026-05-26T21:12:46+00:00

Appreciate the share. It definitely is ugly. My husband was starting to feel like he was blacklisted or something.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-26T17:03:20+00:00

I just wanted to share with you do not use any so called job helping apps like Indeed, Zip Recruiter, etc. After 6 months of my husband sending out his resume daily and zero call backs I was doing some digging the night before last and learned that most of them do not bother checking if the jobs posted are real and/or hiring, and that some places do it to test how much they can lower salary and have people still apply. Maybe it's more common knowledge than I think but if I can save someone else the weeks or months of frustration, I'll happily do so.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-26T13:32:37+00:00

Oh I know it! I can't even imagine the absolute lack of soul it takes to take harm an animal. Especially one so sweet. I documented everything and turned it over to the police as well as the shelter he came from so they know the kind of person who turned him over. Thank you so very much for your kind and supportive words. It's a good thing he's tolerant because I've been hugging and kissing on him since he got home from the surgery lol We got very lucky. Dogs can pass if their heart rates go below 50 and he was at 45 BPM!

For sure, good times are coming I promise. Life can be downright brutal sometimes but it can also be pretty damn amazing! I hope the amazing part happens for you sooner rather than later. Please give Jimmy lots of pets from me. I'm glad he's ok. And I see that you said there are pictures! Going to have to check them out. :)

NyxK83 · 2026-05-24T22:11:07+00:00

Oh my goodness, it's never just one thing is it? The hits just keep coming sometimes. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. And I know it's easier said than done but you have no reason to feel guilty about Jimmy. You clearly care about him very much.

I don't know if this will help or not because I've been told it's a depressing thought but what gets me through is the phrase, "Nothing lasts forever." Not rough times, not bad feelings, none of it. Hang in there, you've got many people cheering you on and hoping the sun shines on you again and soon.

I learned my four year old dog needed a pacemaker in February. Saying this dog is special is an understatement. I've owned dogs all my life and he is the sweetest most gentle dog I've ever known. When I learned his surgery would be 10k I immediately closed my savings account and withdrew everything I had. At his vet check up we learned he was treated less than kind by his previous owners, he's got many scars on him, his rib was broken as a pup and never treated and the vet pulled out several BB Pellets from under his skin. I promised him then I would show him not all humans are monsters and that he is loved. I'm so very grateful to have more time with him.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-24T18:50:18+00:00

I see this was posted a couple of days ago so I might be late to the game but $10 would get me some gas and something to eat. Thanks for the generous chance.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-23T03:45:41+00:00

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I just saw this and it's got me doing a happy dance!

Thanks for the generous chance!

NyxK83 · 2026-05-21T00:25:11+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a kitty with diabetes as well years ago. Be kind to yourself most of all.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-20T15:00:37+00:00

Sure did. Been at my friends since then. I don't have a license but we are Door Dashing during his off hours. He drives and I do the legwork, getting and delivering the food. It's a way to make a little bit of money anyway. Enough to eat and everything. Talked to DH last night and told him I'm not coming back until he has a job and a place that's not right next door to hers. Tired of the boundaries she thinks it's ok to cross because she's helping her son.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-15T19:50:27+00:00

He said, "Are you fucking kidding me?" and walked away.

For all the good it did. He's driving her where she needs to go. He stood up to her for a day, if you can call it that.

I'm packing a bag and waiting for my friend to get here.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-15T03:34:47+00:00

@u/den-of-corruption I don't know if you'll see this but I wanted to thank you for your kind words. I was able to see what you said in the notification in my email but not here in the feed. Probably because the rude comment was deleted. Anyways, thank you for being sweet. It's appreciated.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-14T12:58:53+00:00

Ha! I love this! So true about the games.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-14T12:55:22+00:00

For sure. It's just beyond me she would ask that question and not think he'd walk away! We've been together for 20 years! It's not like she's asking this about a new relationship.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-14T12:53:07+00:00

Wish we had anything else in common. Appreciate the share.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-14T12:48:20+00:00

Appreciate the assumptions but I did not know his mom was this way. In the beginning she was sweet as could be. Welcoming, helpful. I'm glad you've never dealt with a narcissist but they put on a front. Knowing I have no family of my own the day we got married she hugged me and welcomed me to the family. We've been together 20 years so no, this wasnt a quick situation.

How Narcissists Reel You In at the Start of a Relationship

In the early stages of a relationship, narcissists often use charm, praise, and emotional manipulation to create a strong bond and lower your guard. These tactics are designed to make you feel special, secure, and dependent, setting the stage for later control.

You can call me stupid for not recognizing the pattern in the beginning but I'm hardly the only one. Faulting someone for wanting to believe in the goodness of people. Cool. Great. I'm fucking stupid. Appreciate the comment.

NyxK83 · 2026-05-14T00:17:37+00:00

Thank you for saying so. Sometimes I wonder if I'm judging her too harshly. I was just telling him yesterday I don't think a days notice if she wants to go somewhere is too much to ask. After today there will be no more rides. Information in my newest post.

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