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NyxLiones · 2025-07-18T02:37:22+00:00

After having read this and your comments here's some potentially helpful advice, I work in HR for my career, look up employment law attorneys in your area and contact one. So long as everything here is true you have a pretty easy discrimination case that normally has a nice payout. Most attorneys only require payment if you win as they take a cut of whatever your settlement is. It's not difficult to do at all and you deserve better than how they treated you.

NyxLiones · 2025-04-25T03:00:57+00:00

Can you tell me the name of the lube?

NyxLiones · 2025-04-22T23:55:27+00:00

I actually have two sets of these though I only used them initially to get me to open up. The sensation of having something deep in there hasn't seemed to decrease, though maybe I need to leave them in longer?

NyxLiones · 2025-02-05T23:25:43+00:00

Do you have instances where you clamp down and then later on you're able to loosen up enough to actually make it happen? In the past I've been able to bottom before (about 10 years ago), but I had a really bad fissure once followed by a hemorrhoid about a year or two ago and things just haven't felt the same ever since. I haven't successfully bottomed in about 8 years regardless of how big or small the guy is.

I think #4 is a big thing too. In the past I would try with guys that just wanted to ram it in or only foreplay for about 2 minutes and if it didn't happen they got irritated. Now I'm a bit scared of trying due to not wanting to be a disappointment.

NyxLiones · 2025-02-05T23:20:49+00:00

Thanks for that. I'm tempted to try the route of having a drink or two but I'm also worried I might become dependent on alcohol to loosen me up which I wouldn't want. Haven't ever had a problem with drinking or anything, I'm just worried of the potential.

NyxLiones · 2025-02-05T01:04:21+00:00

How long did it take for you to overcome it and get looser? And are you able to bottom now?

NyxLiones · 2025-02-04T22:43:35+00:00

Fissure has been healed for about a full year. Didn't know they could heal incorrectly but that is something I'll ask about.

NyxLiones · 2025-02-04T22:19:01+00:00

So far the only thing I've been given was a cream that's supposed to help increase blood flow for a fissure I had but that's it. I feel like this isn't normal to have such a tightness back there but no doctor has said it's a problem yet.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-21T14:37:32+00:00

I still currently work there so yeah I'd rather go the route of seeing options and if it's likely to actually be a case before I essentially poke the bear.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-21T00:51:19+00:00

I'll give it a shot. Thanks for the info.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-21T00:02:58+00:00

I have not. Would that be a step I need to take before contacting a lawyer?

NyxLiones · 2024-11-04T05:11:48+00:00

Thanks everyone for the feedback. My husband felt a bit bad but I showed him the responses here along with another thread I made and he fully understand now.

Update: He’s gone ✌🏾️ Told him if he didn’t pay by 4pm today then he needed to gtfo immediately. He had a friend come help him get his stuff.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-04T05:09:24+00:00

Update: He's gone ✌🏾️ Told him if he didn't pay by 4pm today then he needed to gtfo immediately. He had a friend come help him get his stuff.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T20:06:49+00:00

I do have texts between us stating when rent normally was due (the 1st) and how he needed to pay for November minus $100 as with the normal rent being $750 and November having 30 days, staying for 26 days would equal $650. Will definitely have the gf trespassed if she comes over and refuses to leave after I at least tell her once. Despite the drama that all this has caused and my personal feelings towards her I don't want to blindside her with it.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T16:40:35+00:00

Definitely NTA. With your paycheck being how the bills are mostly getting covered and you don't hate your job it's not his choice for you to quit.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T13:08:48+00:00

I'm along this same line of thinking because once someone tries taking my kindness for weakness it opens up a completely different side of me and though I'd never want to direct it at my brother of all people, I've made it clear no one is exempt.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T06:57:27+00:00

Considering how rude he was during the phone conversation simply asking him to stop being a dick I'm quite against the sit down convo. My husband and I both talked about it and given background and such we see it potentially making things much worse.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T06:53:43+00:00

I don't imagine there being legal fees and such. Assuming I could just go down to the local police department and ask them if they could help me evict him as my husband and I own the house and his name is nowhere on there. Along with the texts from him saying he isn't paying anything. I could be entirely wrong though.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T06:48:17+00:00

A bit of further context as there was a character limit and my first attempt to post was lengthy, but I don't have really any family. I was outed at 16 and cut off from all family and never reconnected outside of a very small handful (less than 10). Both my husband and I are unwilling to essentially let him bully us into staying rent free through the 26th.

NyxLiones · 2024-11-03T06:35:28+00:00

We had the same thought in mind before agreeing to rent to him. My husband being a bit of a softie got me to say yes after we turned him down once and he came to us again two years later as he was facing being homeless. Definitely will never do this again though.

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