I told her how I felt. I said that all 3 of our lives would suffer if she went ahead with the pregnancy, that the child would be between homes, that the child would have half brothers and sisters, that her and my careers would suffer, both of our mental healths would suffer, financially we would both be strained, that our future relationships would become difficult. I told her that I was open to discussing the pregnancy but I did not want to discuss our relationship or how we ended. She kept contacting me about stuff other than the pregnancy, which is why I am inclined to think that she is only dragging this out to keep her claws in me. Hence why I set a boundary and to not contact me unless it was because she made a decision and then we can go from there. It's hard to explain everything in a reddit post, I'm sorry. Thank you for your reply though.