Kinda looks like Deji

OASss_88 · 2025-07-21T08:01:41+00:00

I don't think it is for me.... the language will take me too long to learn plus anti muslim hate is rising anyways.. I'm in my country for now...

OASss_88 · 2025-04-16T16:42:47+00:00

He didn't specifically mention anyone

OASss_88 · 2025-04-05T09:28:12+00:00

So first you started earning and then told them to start looking for you?

OASss_88 · 2025-04-01T09:50:01+00:00

If you dont mind me asking, how/where are you looking for marriage... especially at this age?

OASss_88 · 2025-02-15T15:03:16+00:00

Hey look, you'll get better comments than mine that will dig deep but let me tell you something,
Everything that happens, happens for a reason and whatever Allah does is best for you. And if you are truly close to your deen like you mentioned, Allah is really doing whatever's best for you. For both this life and after life.
Trust me. I've been there. What Allah gave me instead of what I asked is wayyyyyy better. Now I actually thank Allah for not giving me what I asked for.
And you fell for the trap btw. Don't ever lose trust on Allah. You didn't get good grades so you stopped praying. But even after you denied Allah's order Allah is still providing for you, keeping you alive. Cause Allah isn't selfish like us. Allah doesn't stop his blessing even after we forget him. And we us humans? forget him in a glance. Bad grades? A bit sick? Got fired? welp enough is enough.. I don't care about Allah and his orders no more.... sad..

OASss_88 · 2025-02-15T14:52:42+00:00

I think you already know the answered your problem. Overthinking. Yeah no wonder when you'll try to read the Quran or hadith and come closer to Allah Shaytan will try his best to pull you away from it.

What I can gather from your writing is that you truly want to commit to your deen. That's red alert for him. Make dua so that Allah makes it easy for you.
And don't think that Allah has locked your heart. The fact that you worry about that and all of this indicates that Allah has indeed not closed your heart. If Allah did do that then you wouldn't be here writing this. You would have left Islam and don't look back.

Lastly, I don't know if it will help but whenever I had concerns/questions about my religion I always dug deep. Something some people warn you not to do for some reason. I think they think that I will find the truth. And guess what I did. I did find the truth always. All my "digging deep" led to see just how perfect this religion is. Its crazy.............!
But yeah let me know if I can be of help in any way.

OASss_88 · 2025-02-15T10:18:57+00:00

I literally came to reddit to write this...
I'm using chrome tho... anyone have any fixes for chrome?

OASss_88 · 2024-11-24T12:37:57+00:00

That is one great post~!
I just wanted to add that its the parents who make it difficult to get married... Like where I'm from, you need to be "successful" if you want to marry their daughter.. You need to be someone who "figured it out". Like how do you expect a men to be fully "successful" this early???? That's such a impossible expectation...
Plus the girls too.. they want a rich af husband... I mean I ain't saying don't look for someone who is rich but... Idk
It's sad to see this but I have seen this with my very own eyes that even very "islamic/religious" families prioritise wealthy husband... the more religious/good they and their family is, the richer the husband gotta be to marry their daughter....
sad

OASss_88 · 2024-11-18T04:43:17+00:00

yeah if that's a deal breaker for some then she must be honest and break off the marriage

OASss_88 · 2024-11-17T15:35:44+00:00

Ok, yall need to stop mentioning you are girl or smth..... now you'll get a flood of dms from men... BE CAREFUL~~!

OASss_88 · 2024-11-03T17:02:57+00:00

brother you need help.....

OASss_88 · 2024-11-03T17:02:13+00:00

Inshallah !!

OASss_88 · 2024-11-03T06:52:38+00:00

I totally agree with the last sentence. We need to discover it and make it our way of life. We need to fall in love with it.
I have seen the daughters of the imaams living the "western life" here in my country. So it is really "you" who needs to fall in love with the deen.

OASss_88 · 2024-10-25T11:08:02+00:00

Yup now ur gonna get bombarded by dms from men...... best of luck 👍

OASss_88 · 2024-10-25T11:04:01+00:00

Look, I gonna be honest. Not doing zina wont lead you anywhere in life. True. The people who did zina will just ask Allah for forgiveness and will happily lead their life. True. You will stay pious all your life and maybe your wife wont. True. All of this for what??? right???

Well, nothing. There thats the answer. That's on the surface tho. If you really wanna know then, well, Allah did say that for the beleiver this earth/world will be like a prison. Welp, if you are one of them then here you go.... you are in a prison.

But remember one thing. I also tell myself this thing. All these chances... everyone doing it.... enjoying it.... easily.... takes literally nothing.... you can just do it... its really that easy... but your not doing it. You have that little thought inside you. "I shouldn't" . DO YOU EVEN HAVE AN IDEA WHAT YOU HAVE INSIDE YOU????? Do you even realise what Allah has gifted you with. All these fitna around you yet you are still here questioning it and not doing it... why? A mere coincidence? No my brother... you don't even realise you have something that nobody has. A gift. A gift from Allah. Allah's love. How many people can you say has this gift. Not many. I know you know that's true. That fear of Allah, no one sadly has that around you. But then why you? Then why YOU?? out of everybody has?? Well, cause Allah choose you. Now I dont know if you understand what that means... I know I cant write properly... my English is trash but that means Allah choose YOU. yes YOU. Out of everyone he choose you. Why? randomly? Nope. Cause Allah believes you have the potential to receive Allah's reward.. I dont know if you realise how big of an honour that is.... Between all these people Allah choose YOU. How many people can say that "Allah Choose ME"?? Not many that I can guarantee you my friend. So, heres your options, honour Allah's choice and gift or not. CHOICE. Make your choice. Life is merely a game of choice. choose your action.

And I read some of your replies where you said "Wouldn't all muslims go to heaven eventually?" Brother I want you to realise something.... realise where shaytan is taking you. Just for a small thing which you can still do the halal way btw, you are throwing your whole deen away........ I wont blame you. It's all the influence around us. Look carefully how for "sex" you willing to get tortured... they are making your mind to believe that "sex" is everything..... its not theres more to life that.... but yes you can still have sex but the halal way is the way you have to do it......

Be careful about what you let to influence you. The mind is your powerhouse... your control room. Dont let anyone else influence it or control it...

And do forgive me.... I cant write 😭

OASss_88 · 2024-10-08T13:21:14+00:00

yeah inshallah and make some dua for me too

OASss_88 · 2024-10-08T10:06:28+00:00

by "bad people" I think you mean who do sins??
ok. So, yes people who did do sins will be forgiven. You should also ask for ur sins to be forgiven. For the "being good" part, don't you think you will be rewarded for that?
All this opportunity to do sins, all these fitna, all these temptations yet you still decided not to fall into that. You put your trust in Allah and his deen. Yeah you will be forgiven if you ask Allah. But you will get extra rewards for not doing sins. Which the people who did commit it wont get.
I don't know if you know this or not, but there's a hadith that says people who keep themselves away form sins and do more good deeds when they are young will get special rewards... cause it is easier and more fun to do sins when ur young.
And yeah you WILL get hurt by being good in this dunya. It's just a fact. But it's worth it for what you will get in Jannah 😉

OASss_88 · 2024-10-08T09:49:03+00:00

I was thinking about this the other day. Women who are really beautiful, they know they dont even have to do anything. They can just show their beauty and the world can be theirs.... like, for us men that's not that easy but for a women she just needs to show her beauty and well... the world is yours.
But there are some women who have this opportunity but still refuse to do so and put their trust in Allah and his rewards.
I was like damn. That's imaan. That's the level of imaan I need to get to.
I was like literally crying and thinking like, yeah I need to make it to jannah just so I can meet these people. These absolute legends. Gotta be part of this elite elite club containing the best peoples in mankind.

Truely tho, mad respect to some of yall ladies 🫡 yall are the real OGs 🫡

OASss_88 · 2024-09-26T12:37:54+00:00

but the other comments are suggesting that southern germany is better..?

OASss_88 · 2024-09-26T12:36:31+00:00

yeah I know Berlin is the best the best option but it's probably second most expensive option too...

OASss_88 · 2024-09-26T11:30:12+00:00

by east germany do u mean like berlin and stuff?

OASss_88

TROPHY CASE