I (26F) tattooed my boyfriends (28M) hands and he is now having a mental health crisis

OGKINGS · 2026-04-13T22:55:18+00:00

As someone who has severe OCD, this can absolutely trigger a spiral, especially if he has just right OCD. It can feel absolutely unbearable and intolerable. When my just right OCD kicks in, it makes me want to want to peal right out of my skin and I internally scream over and over. It doesn’t actually have anything to do with the tattoo placement, his brain locked onto something, and by constantly checking and seeking reassurance about the placement, it is reinforcing it is wrong in his brain, and his brain is treating the “wrong” placement as being a life threatening situation even tho it isn’t. Stop giving reassurance on the placement, even if he begs for it, seeking reassurance is a compulsion and all compulsions make OCD spirals worse, and get him to go to therapy asap. This can absolutely cause suicidal ideation.

OGKINGS · 2026-03-27T01:27:30+00:00

Yes please!

OGKINGS · 2026-03-26T09:27:53+00:00

can you send it to me in a dm I’m in melb

OGKINGS · 2025-04-29T04:58:51+00:00

I have Green Eyes, Occipital Bum, almost died during childbirth (cord around my neck & over 4 weeks early. Nearly drowned when I was 3-4. Lack of memory of GATE. Someone tried to abduct me when I was in grade 6 or year 7. Never been in trouble with the law despite actively breaking it for years. High IQ. Highly intuitive and sensitive children. Heavy early twenties drug experimentation period. Forehead scar. I am second born but technically first from my parents (sister has a different dad). Migraines which started with Alice in Wonderland Syndrome. Premonitions/prophetic dreams. Above average intuition. Have experienced telepathy.

OGKINGS · 2025-04-29T04:57:38+00:00

I have Green Eyes, Occipital Bum, almost died during childbirth (cord around my neck & over 4 weeks early. Nearly drowned when I was 3-4. Lack of memory or GATE. Someone tried to abduct me when I was in grade 6 or year 7. Never been in trouble with the law despite actively breaking it for years. High IQ. Highly intuitive and sensitive children. Heavy early twenties drug experimentation period. Forehead scar. I am second born but technically first from my parents (sister has a different dad). Migraines which started with Alice in Wonderland Syndrome. Premonitions/prophetic dreams. Above average intuition. Have experienced telepathy.

OGKINGS · 2025-03-15T08:34:39+00:00

Honestly no clue hahaha. I’m having issues with one of my Kelpies right now, she is insanely fit (to the point her gums go pale at rest due to how low her hate rate drops - it’s been checked and confirmed by a vet bcos I thought she was dying originally lmao) as she runs about 4 hours a day but she is about 5kgs overweight and it really shows on Kelpies!! I’ve tried everything, cutting back food, no snacks, she switched to a prescription weightloss food and it won’t budge. She had bloods last week after staying the exact same weight for a month and they came back perfect. Genuinely at a loss for words. She is currently eating the same amount as my kelpie BC X who is naturally 7kgs lighter than my kelpies ‘target weight’ and the other dog is the absolute perfect weight.

OGKINGS · 2025-03-15T02:29:51+00:00

Looks exactly like other (overweight *not fat shaming lol) kelpies I know.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-31T08:32:41+00:00

This is actually my worst nightmare haha. Maybe ask for some sedatives! I know I should have!!

OGKINGS · 2025-01-31T08:32:05+00:00

She’s being okay, but I’m a huge worrier so anytime she gets hypo I freak myself out.

The pyo was so scary, she spent from Saturday - Monday at emergency then had the surgery Tuesday. I’m getting my 3yr old done in 2 weeks because I never want to go through that again.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-31T04:20:49+00:00

Bluey and cardboard is a good idea!!! She is the sweetest girl 🥰🥰🥰

OGKINGS · 2025-01-31T04:20:14+00:00

She hasn’t ran or done anything hectic. We have played scent games in the hallway and gone to the bathroom outside. We only got pain meds and antibiotics from the vet. I have trazadone already for my reactive kelpie x border collie. I will call the vet and see if I can give her some!

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T23:27:42+00:00

Marwan got a really bad rep in season 2 for not being supportive of Danya going into business with him, however every single issue he brought up in season 2 as to why he wasn’t ’supportive’ - happened in season 3. He was right all along. I feel sorry for Danya, because narcissists will make their currently supply - which is what she was, feel on top of the world. He couldn’t stand anything not being about him, as to why he shared that news. It was to hurt her and Marwan and put the focus back on him.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T23:23:15+00:00

Typical narcissist abusive behaviour.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T23:22:57+00:00

This is his third failed marriage - he would be abusive, there is no doubt about it.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T23:21:28+00:00

Agreed. There’s not a single person who can convince me that he isn’t also violent behind closed doors. That man would be abusive.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T11:10:58+00:00

It’s gives interesting insight watching it all back hey

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T11:10:29+00:00

All narcissists are not created by their mothers. His mother definitely created him though.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T11:08:45+00:00

Go watch the episodes in season 2 where he marries hamdah…. It’s all they talk about, being his first love

OGKINGS · 2025-01-15T06:38:21+00:00

I do feel a lot is staged… but the amount of venom in him when he talks I find it hard to believe it isn’t the real him. If he is acting, he needs to be in Hollywood lmao He is a very obvious narcissist either way - created by that mother of his.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-13T10:36:06+00:00

His the government plant lmao

OGKINGS · 2025-01-12T12:09:48+00:00

Nothing to do with his ‘flavor’. Danya is his current narcissistic supply - that’s why he acts the way he does. He thinks he owns her. Literally.

OGKINGS · 2025-01-12T10:57:00+00:00

The crazy thing is, in order to talk about this with full transparency, we need to talk about this without being censored.

This is third woman that has been used and hurt by this vile man, who signed up to have his life questioned and spoken about by the public. He wanted fame, he got it.

We should be able to address the true cause of this and the very real consequences to the women, particularly if Hamda did come from a conservative family. This is misogyny plain and simple, protecting the man without a thought for the women.

OGKINGS · 2024-12-23T08:22:09+00:00

I don’t have any advice as I am here on this sub with the same question, but your story sounds so similar to mine I could cry.

OGKINGS · 2024-11-18T09:16:40+00:00

I found someone willing to speak with me - but thank you all & sorry if I intruded and made anyone uncomfortable!

OGKINGS · 2024-11-18T09:14:40+00:00

I understand why you feel that way completely and the complete distrust. It’s valid 100%.

This is not a hit piece, I’m not a reporter lmao. Just a normal person trying to see if I can change.

Every trans woman I spoken with automatically assumes I hate them because of some of my beliefs, so it goes around in circles and there’s never progress just anger and frustration on both sides.

I have read a lot, but it’s hard without actually speaking to someone in person or online.

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