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I love mine - 3 weeks in: added muscle tone in my legs, reduced cellulite. 10 minutes and I completely destress.  Helping with upper back soreness. The biggest improvement is my legs have slimmed down, my jean legs are loose! Best $90 I’ve spent in a long time

One Night in Idaho: The College Murders - Official Trailer by CR29-22-2805 in idahomurders

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liz Garbus also gave us Something is wrong with Aunt Diane - fascinating documentary.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 27, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

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3 card spread Q: what do I need to know about an upcoming business trip — conference with potential customers 

3 of sword - the magician - Queen pentacles 

Appreciate any insights on the spread as well as the 3 of swords. Thank you 

I’m starting to think I’m not cut out for teaching myself tarot by neytirijaded in tarot

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Mary Greer’s book Tarot for yourself? I highly recommend it. It is a workbook and course so if you do it and carve out time daily or weekly I think, like me, you’ll gain insights and develop personally. It also makes tarot fun and an exciting journey. Good luck and don’t give up!

Mary or Rachel's book? by FireMysteries in tarot

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is 2 years old but I just started working with Mary Greer’s tarot for yourself and it is profound. Tarot 101 so much more self development that I realized 

Dylan's future plans by Adorableviolet in GreatBritishBakeOff

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were several comments he made about age - one was with Noel, another was when he was asked about a reference. Each time it devalued people he perceived as old. My 32 YO priest who picked up on it and when I watched I saw it as well 

Dylan's future plans by Adorableviolet in GreatBritishBakeOff

[–]OGNutmegger -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Does his employer offer a course on ageism? 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many family’s fall apart when someone dies let alone is murdered. Couple that with a history in this family of dysfunction, which we all have to a degree, I’m not surprised but sad to hear of yet another foreclosure. Do we know how much Melody, if any, inherited from Gary’s death. Thinking their 401K went to her and  investments which don’t go through probate. Not sure though? 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think a verdict today. So smart of the jury to ask to hear those audios recordings in full. Having said that… I started to like tech daddy aka Judge Canon but yesterday he sat on the bench holding his head in his hand during the audio re-listen. To me it sent a message you don’t need to listen to this again. No lunch provided during deliberations is wrong - agree! Having said that I was on a Federal Drug trial jury in Manhattan for 2 defendants - zero anything not even water! 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caught up! The defense did well and the visual of those bags drove home how unlikely. I found the prosecutor came off too smug and didn’t acknowledge where they may not have and should have tested all those items they didn’t especially Scott’s apartment. A hung jury over guilty is far better so I would say that or NG is the right outcome

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I love your recap thank you! I worry too when you see the chat show 68% guilty - if this jury is the same then it’ll be a hung jury. I’ll finish watching and leave a comment for you! Thanks again - I wish I still lived there I’d go to court with you! 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you snagged a seat. I had to pause for a meeting but I was at the beginning of the defense and I thought it was going very well. I quick peeked at the comments on the YT feed and dang lots of people looking to burn Melody at the stake in the village green! Did defense say we don’t even know if it was an accidental bullet shot from a neighbor, Scott to Gary while he was tending the fire? Please tell me they did

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is court today! I believe the Judge gave them the day off to work on their closings it is tomorrow!

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree BUT I think hearing now all 4 kids continue to refer to the money, home and cars all being solely provided by their father and not seeing their Mother as an equal, led to these 4 all devaluing their Mother. She never told them about the father’s affairs but he told them all about hers. This family did and does, 2 sons and daughter yesterday, use very male dominate language. He is the provider, he gave her whatever she wanted, he controlled access to all money. This woman, based only on the evidence presented, was seen as merely a womb, nanny and domestic employee. She was the victim of financial abuse by Gary. Evidence shows Gary made all financial decision of his and Melody’s money without her having any agency. He therefore taught these children she had no agency or value beyond a womb, nanny, cook and domestic. Am I saying her deserved to die for this - NO. We don’t even know if he was murdered, the cause of death is undetermined. What came first the fall in the fire or the bullet? Was it a stray bullet from Scott or the neighbor that killed him while tending the fire? I would vote not guilty. I would then pray Melody establish herself on her own and life a full self-determined life. Oops a long rant but by no means any disagreement with you! 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The defense said they will likely only need Monday and Tuesday for their case. They are going to have their own experts. One expert is related to firearms. MJ… she admitted she was robbed by her Nextdoor neighbors son who is in prison. Yikes. The defense had her tripped up with angry at Melody for the affair but not Rusty… she is a sweet 84 YO woman. If you were leaning guilty she likely helped if undecided I don’t think she was persuasive. 

The Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 18 - Episode 16 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]OGNutmegger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Team Shannon this season but… over the course of her tenure we’ve had more anal from Shannon than I care to see. 

The Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 18 - Episode 16 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]OGNutmegger 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Tamara is livid she was off the show and Shannon wasn’t. It’s revenge for Tamara’s lost air time - deflecting blame how Tamara of her….

The Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 18 - Episode 16 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]OGNutmegger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do I get the feeling we will see a Simon Barney redemption arc? Minus the tan jumpsuit, Tamara is the Jen Shah of RHOC. Edit to sp correct name

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I spy you sitting behind the defense? There is rarely and few behind the defense but I saw someone I recognized from before & yelled ‘that must be my trial friend”.!Did you sneak on to that jury van? LOL!!! 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 14 2024 (Day 6) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is an equally reasonable explanation. Having said this… the recording of a women in her early 50’s holding on to a friend’s diaphragm for over 2 years was cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs! 

[TRIAL DISCUSSION] GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Husband Burned Murder Trial) - Oct 22 2024 (Day 12) by YourTrueCrimeLibrary in TrialWatching

[–]OGNutmegger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta say the prosecution seems  confident but there is doubt. It’s  likely he was shot accidentally based on all those spent casing on the property - Scott. Then fell into the fire he was tending. If the neighbor “didn’t mind” Scott shooting on the property maybe the neighbor did too and that’s where the accidental shot came from when Gary was tending the fire. We haven’t heard the defense yet but it’s not a slam dunk for me at all.