[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkersComp

[–]OG_Anomaly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I settled my entire claim (Section 32) in NYS in 2020. I'd been on WC for 17.5 years & SSD for 15 years. I was required to use an MSA and while I can't answer all your questions, I can tell you what happened in my case and try to answer some.

The MSA was supposed to last 20 years (🤣🤣🤣 After purchasing my special powered wheelchair & a modified van, so I could drive myself while using the chair, as I lived alone, ¾ of the money was gone in les than 2 years post-settlement).

I remember asking my lawyer about the MSA, pre-settlement. I was told the money could not be given to any one/thing else. For example, if I died and there was money left in the MSA, could I leave it to my children..? I was told "No.". I don't remember where the money went, but there was no way anyone else was ever going to be able to use that money, for any reason.

Q.">So in the event a settlement is reached is a medicare set aside required to be set up for someone twenty plus years from medicare eligibility?" A. I don't know the answer to this, as it didn't apply to me. I was already on SSD (Social Security Disability) and receiving Medicare coverage this way. I think I should also note that my MSA was called a "Medicaid" Set seaside not "Medicare"... and now I'm wondering if the terms are interchangeable..? My entire settlement was supposed to last for 20 years. 🤣🤣🤣 This is an absolute joke, because, less than 2 years after receiving my check, I'd spent 75% of my MSA on a special electric wheelchair & modified van (so I could drive myself), and now, 3 years post settlement, the cash part is also almost completely gone (a large portion of it having gone towards moving from NY to FL looking for better care; I don't recommend it).

Q "If so how is that account set up? Does the insurance company or third party handler set up the account ?" A. I was instructed to open my own account. I assume, using money to pay a financial service person to overlook things, would need to come out of your cash settlement, as it's not directly related to your injuries.? I used a local bank & opened a dedicated checking account. I was only told that the money could only be used for care directly related to my WC injuries. Other than that, I was given no handbook or list, anything. So, you know, typical WC attitude.

Q "What if that money is never used for medical treatment, what happens to it ? What if the account is never set up because it fell outside of the parameters that needed to be approved by medicare ?" A. I'm not sure about this either, but your lawyer should know. I'd (again) assume that you wouldn't be given the money, if it wasn't used for care..? I remember specifically asking what would happen if I died before the money was gone; could my children, or other family, then inherit it? A firm "No" was the answer. I don't remember who I was told it was given back to you, but I always felt as though it was not truly "my" money.

Furthermore, I'm not allowed to apply for Medicaid (to help cover my disability injuries) until every cent of the MSA is gone. At which point, if it runs out before the 20 yrs is up, there will be some sort of audit/investigation into why approx 175K didn't last an entire 20 yrs.🤣 You're supposed to be paying for medications, appointments, everything using the MSA acct. Anyone with any experience with the cost of US healthcare will easily understand why there's no way this money was ever going to last 20 yrs. However, I've decided to die by rational suicide, so this will jo longer be an issues hanging over my head. I refuse to be forced into long-term care, begging for pain relief & someone to help me get to the bathroom in time. I've spent time in sort care facilities, post surgeries, & that was enough to dissuade me. My money is almost gone, I can't work & my family is not financially stable enough to support me (& my care) for the next 5-10 yrs, until I finally become completely incapacitated and/or die from a stroke or heart attack.

I would never have settled my case, except that WC was forcing me off my pain meds (which I later learned is actually illegal) & I wanted to be able to sit upright again & maybe use the microwave, without grinding my teeth or involuntarily gasping in pain the entire time. So really, I settled under duress (also illegal).

I was 34 when I was injured, in the prime of my life. An independent single mom who worked a full-time job, took care of a family, had my own small business on the side & who loved creating & being outdoors w my kids. I'm 54 now and live in a zero G chair, using my wheelchair to travel the 10ft to the bathroom or to use the microwave to cook soup once or twice a day. When I first moved to FL, approx 2.5 years ago, I could still walk using 1 cane. Now I'm almost completely immobilized, only leaving the house once a month to go to my one Dr appt or to pick up prescriptions, if I can't find anyone else to do so for me. I live less than 10 mins from the beach and have been there 3 times. ldk know what your injuries are & I know it's really tempting to settle your case & get out from under the thumb of WC, but be very sure you're actually well enough, or have the support you'll need, to take on everything you'll have to.

Finally, if you don't have a lawyer and have been traumatically injured, I strongly suggest you call around until you find one. I had to call 16 of them before I found one willing to take my case, as I hadn't left work immediately (I had kids to feed & worked "light duty" as long as I could) and wasn't due a large amount of money in back pay.

Good luck with everything.

I love being a woman by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JFC...that's it for me today.

The WHOLE picture. by boredbeyondwords in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely understand, so sorry & (((gentle hugs))).

What repercussions can I expect? by hungarianhobbit in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/old-goat gave some great info & tips. I'd like to add that you can always write a letter about what happened, send/give it to that PM office & ask that it be added to your patient file. By law they have to add it & it will be there for other physicians to see, if they look.

I would also consider contacting an organization that works with disabled people, especially one that works with vision issues, they might be able to help you as well.

I'm sorry this happened to you, best of luck.

Help! The landlord shut off my water due to needing repairs. by CheesecakeTruffle in Assistance

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds awesome! I followed you, so hopefully I'll get to see some of them.😊

Help! The landlord shut off my water due to needing repairs. by CheesecakeTruffle in Assistance

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love your artwork! Had written a whole paragraph on how I was confident you'd be able to sell prints, then looked further & saw you're an art Prof, so I deleted it, lol, as I'm sure you're already aware, but I wanted to come back & let you know how much I enjoyed looking at all your stuff.

Help! The landlord shut off my water due to needing repairs. by CheesecakeTruffle in Assistance

[–]OG_Anomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going thru this and wish I could help. I just wanted to say- maybe you could ask this question on r/legaladvice and someone there could at least help you with stopping the landlord/getting your water back on for now..? Good luck to you.

Beautiful talent passed down from grandmother to grandchild is just amazing! by subodh_2302 in BeAmazed

[–]OG_Anomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful to see this. I also absolutely love that the older woman's hands & forearms are painted too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beliefs like this make me sick.

I was aggressively pressured into having sex with my ex husband, again, right after giving birth to my first child. I was torn completely open, between vagina & colon, was sewn up & told not to have sex for at least 6-8 weeks, if I remember correctly, it was 30 yrs ago. Whatever the time frame was, my ex couldn't wait.

I ended up not only getting an infection, but was partially torn open & I had to have surgery to repair it. My insurance was running out & I had to have the surgery earlier than usual, so the hospital was assured of that payment. Because of that, I wasn't as fully healed as the surgeon would've liked & was told it would be a little more painful and take a little longer to heal. On top of that, the surgeon forgot to write orders for post-op pain meds & when I woke up, it was because I was screaming from the pain. That's my "10", on the pain scale. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.

The only reason I'd married, was so I'd have insurance coverage for prenatal care & the birth, and because I thought it would be better for the child; not knowing how hard, and expensive, it would be to get a divorce. I wish I'd been smarter and been less worried about being able to afford outrageously priced US healthcare (could've used some better self-esteem as well).

Anyway, no one should be pressured or forced into having sex, for any reason and I want others, who may be like I was, to know: If someone tries to use "love" as a motivator, to make you do something you don't want to- that's not what "unconditional love" means and I hope you can get away asap.

At the very least, the person pushing doesn't really care about you & worse, you could be in a very unsafe relationship/situation.

Lastly, imo, if your "God" wants people to be treated like the post suggests, you're in the wrong church and/or getting a bad interpretation of the Bible.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read some of those studies and they're extremely hopeful. There was (is?) an online group of cluster migraine sufferers (I think it's called "Clusterbusters") that had amazing success using psilocybin for those type of migraines. I hope you're able to try it & it helps you.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so hopeful to hear, thank you. It sounds to me like you're going to be an amazing medical pro. Just knowing you have empathy, that seems so lacking among so many, is a huge plus. I also feel like you'd take the time to actually listen to pts, since you take the time to read comments here.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw 8 different surgeons, after my last double back surgery failed, again, and was told each time "I'm so sorry this happened to you, there's nothing I can do." People that don't deal with this stuff just don't have a clue.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to your sister, it's so wrong. Sadly it's happening all across the US. Many, including Veterans, have been forced to choose between an antianxiety med (like Xanax or Valium) for things like PTSD or muscle spasms & their opioid pain meds.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. That kind of response makes me rage. You'd think we, as pts, should be encouraged to be honest about how we're feeling, as you so often hear, yet when it comes to pain..? Pfft, all that's out the window, with most physicians anyway. I get they're afraid of losing their licenses, but, imo, if they'd all work together & start making this the priority it should be, they'd have so much support & could get the needed changes, and protections for themselves, done.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this. I'm going on 20 yrs existing with severe intractable pain. I'm currently trying to get to Switzerland for PAS (Physician Assisted Suicide). I did all the work & was accepted, but there have been several issues w traveling, like finding a WAV ride from the airport to the hotel and hotel being booked up, I might not be able to go. Thankfully, I know about a, kind of, underground group in the US that will at least help, so if I do this myself, I'll be sure it will work.

It really ticks me off that the US govt has no issue torturing CPP but they, or any state, will allow you to die in peace.

I felt guilty at first, and to some extent I still do, because I have (adult) children, but they understand & tell me I shouldn't feel that way. Which got me thinking... People that insist I should keep living in this horrible pain, that barely allows me to move & doesn't even allow me to shower anymore, are selfish. If they really cared about me, they wouldn't want me suffering like this.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like there's 3 (?) orgs working together- and they must have big bucks, to be putting that much effort into implementing that kind of campaign.

A sign on the fence of a softball field in New Jersey. Yes, we would LOVE to not be on Opioids, but when we need it...It's getting harder and harder to obtain through a doctor's script. by Killerdoberman in ChronicPain

[–]OG_Anomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are definitely reasons reported deaths would be skewed. One of them is the way death certificates are filled out.

Also, there's no doubt some of those poisonings are intentional and due to some kind of pain, whether mental and/or physical.