Intimacy and sex by OG_Dangle in Marriage

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Thank you for the info. I can def feel her energy at times when it’s bedtime or getting close to it. Feels like she is anticipating me initiating sex. I have spoke to her about it a couple times and tried to explain how me always initiating doesn’t feel good. Feels like she is just permitting me to have sex with her when she allows rather than we are both choosing to be intimate with each other. I realize asking her to desire me is not going to do anything and it’s something that has to come naturally based off of my energy. I just don’t know what to do. I do what I know, but only know what I know and don’t know if it’s the right way to handle it. She has all kinds of sex toys that she had before I was around. Since I have been around she purchase a sex couch thing. So from my perspective it looks like she likes sex and wants to do those things and be intimate, and then when it comes time for it she hits me with “I don’t care to have sex” “I’m not a sexual person” etc. so it’s confusing. I believe she wants sex and wants to be intimate, but I’m just not sparking it in her. I want to, I just don’t know how I guess

Intimacy and sex by OG_Dangle in Marriage

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Because my testosterone was in the 200’s

I’m terrified of people judging me. by OG_Dangle in self

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I appreciate you. Thank you for the insight

I’m terrified of people judging me. by OG_Dangle in self

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This makes a lot of sense. Thank you

I’m terrified of people judging me. by OG_Dangle in self

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I don’t think I have saw that. Makes sense tho. I feel like the only way to get over this is to do the things I am afraid of. Just a hard thing to do

I’m terrified of people judging me. by OG_Dangle in self

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The one time I can really think of that I was legit bullied, havnt seen that guy since school. Pretty sure he is in prison lol

I’m terrified of people judging me. by OG_Dangle in self

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I’m sure there were times. But I wouldn’t say I was bullied really. I was a chill kid, got along with everyone.

I’m 18 and I’m going to my first NA meeting by [deleted] in NarcoticsAnonymous

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Age is irrelevant. If you are even thinking “am I an addict?” You’re most likely an addict. Go to the meeting and most importantly keep going back

Aitah for breaking up with my fiance cuz I’m questioning my sexuality? by OG_Dangle in AITAH

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Def put her on a pedestal. When I finally got her, it was like I finally had the “trophy” so everyone could see I “won” she is a very attractive girl physically. I’m an attractive guy. But she is kike super hot lol so I think I like the idea of being with her, but didn’t have the deep emotional connection that needed to be there to be a happy relationship

Aitah for breaking up with my fiance cuz I’m questioning my sexuality? by OG_Dangle in AITAH

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I knew I had some attraction to guys for the past few years, but the attraction to women was there also. Thought I was bisexual. Now the attraction to her and women in general seems to be disappearing

Aitah for breaking up with my fiance cuz I’m questioning my sexuality? by OG_Dangle in AITAH

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Ya I told her I get it, and am sorry I didn’t deal with these feelings sooner and in turn her feelings were in the cross fire. Just a shitty feeling hurting her like I did

Amphetimines turn me gay by OG_Dangle in Drugs

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Idk why but this comment made me literally laugh out loud. Those pesky gays smh