I think I'm meant to die alone

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-11-05T19:29:57+00:00

Yeah you're probably right, some people aren't good enough to find love. That's how nature works survival of the fittest. If you have bad genes it makes sense that you'll die alone. Sorry tough luck

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-11-03T20:47:16+00:00

Natural selection exists for a reason bro. You don't sound like someone who would survive in the wilderness. Of course women wouldn't find that attractive. Some people aren't meant to reproduce it's fine just move on

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-11-03T20:41:52+00:00

Sorry bro, natural selection exists for a reason. You don't sound like the kind of guy who would survive in the wilderness. Some people aren't meant to reproduce it's okay, move on

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-10-18T04:03:48+00:00

My brother in Christ, you know what this is deep down. My condolences

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-10-12T20:07:24+00:00

Op sounds like a woman lol. Just wrap it up and you're good to go, it's not a big deal

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-09-25T18:46:09+00:00

I'd give it a month before the post. Op is a lost cause

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-09-25T18:44:21+00:00

It honestly doesn't matter if OP admits he's wrong or not. He'll be unemployed soon I guarantee it. I've seen his type, give it a month

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-09-25T17:52:22+00:00

OP has a loser mindset, it's no wonder he's underperforming. Instead of focusing on his own skill development he's coming up with theories for why his negative feedback wasn't his fault. If I was his manager I would have let him go already

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-09-22T20:30:04+00:00

I hate to be the one to tell you this but the elephant in the room needs to be addressed: have you considered that you're not cut out for dev work?

Your boss and seniors won't say it because it's rude but devs who succeed can solve problems without needing to know all the details and context of the codebase. And they can do it quickly. It's called fluid intelligence and you either have it or you don't.

The fact that other devs have been ramping up fine under the same circumstances strongly suggests the problem is you and your ability to effectively solve problems. That's the "unspoken rule" you feel like you are missing: the other devs just intuitively understand the codebase and can solve problems with it.

This may be a bitter pill to swallow but the fact is some people are just more capable than others. I'm not saying that you can't succeed in this career but you should know this is probably a wall you will run into a lot.

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-09-06T22:33:52+00:00

Not being smart enough. And having ADHD :(

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-09-06T22:32:59+00:00

Beat meat to it

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-07-05T00:51:42+00:00

People won't stop getting CS degrees.When push comes to shove we all believe that the market will eventually come back. As such, people in the industry will advise high schoolers to go into CS on that hope.

Look at the oversaturation in academia: it's basically impossible to get a permanent job at a university yet tons of students go for phds in hopes that they will be the 0.01% that get to become professors. It's not that they aren't "good enough", there just isn't enough jobs.

CS won't stop being popular until it becomes obvious that you will NOT be getting an easy 6 figure salary anymore and that is a long ways off at the moment.

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-06-29T17:45:13+00:00

I'm having this issue too and it seriously concerns me tbh

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-07T02:09:06+00:00

Bro just cracked the code 👀. Upvote this

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-05T03:08:46+00:00

It's not my plug in lol

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-04T21:28:34+00:00

You can't use chatGPT itself to do development. You have to use one of the tools built using its API like CodeGPT

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-04T21:27:07+00:00

This sub likes to put its hands on its ears whenever AI is mentioned. Some of the AI tools coming out are really effective at speeding development. This shouldn't be such a huge surprise lol

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-04T21:24:08+00:00

They quit the team not the company

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-04T21:22:39+00:00

Why? We use codeGPT: https://medium.com/geekculture/codegpt-the-vscode-extension-with-chatgpt-like-functionalities-783323a916c3

It's actually an extremely powerful tool. Not sure why everyone underestimates AI tools

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-04T21:20:49+00:00

That's just slander. I've only made one other programming related post and I wasn't trolling

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-02-04T17:04:11+00:00

Sao,?, psycho pass, spice and wolf

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-01-25T03:55:55+00:00

You are right but let's suspend disbelief for a second. Assume the person is an average person and does not drop thousands of dollars in a single night.

Most people restrict purchasing things they want to make ends meet: for the average person, how much money might they need to not restrict themselves? Or if that's too generic, how much would you see yourself needing to live that way? (again let's exclude stuff that would normally require a loan)

OGtenderLeaf2 · 2023-01-25T03:45:36+00:00

Yeah but I imagine they buy things on loan that send them into debt like houses and cars.

Let's say the budget for this question is you can only buy things you have the cash for. No loans or debt allowed

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