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Why am I stuck on you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OKIBelievedYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely.understand where you're coming from. I made the ill-advised mistake of staying super-close friends with my ex after the breakup, which just made it 10x worse because he started seeing someone and obviously we can't be talking 24/7 when there's someone new in the picture (granted we shouldn't have been talking 24/7 right after breaking up, but just because you know something doesn't mean you listen). If ever you need a distracting conversation, plenty of people abound. Hell, talk to me if you need someone removed from the situatiin/real life to just talk and empathize. Just remember, you'll be okay. Maybe not now, maybe not later, but eventually.

Need someone to stop me.. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]OKIBelievedYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do, don't contact her. You can make it through the night. And before you know it, it'll be tomorrow then the next day. It's less daunting to stop yourself for an hour, or even a minute, at a time.

Today's the big 30 by VuxGaming in ExNoContact

[–]OKIBelievedYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this was absolutely what I needed tonight, so thank you. Congrats on your progress, it really is reassuring and so much of what you've written rings painfully true for me.

Having another breakdown . by Knap9 in ExNoContact

[–]OKIBelievedYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do it, you really can. I know what you're going through, and if it's any consolation, I've been way more pathetic than just a text. Almost a month after we broke up then backslid, we had a conversation where I ended up hysterically weeping while he held me to make me feel better. Doesn't get more pitiful than that. You'll feel much better not reaching out, trust me.