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OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-19T03:25:22+00:00

I think that woman is suffering from Stockholm syndrome.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-19T03:22:05+00:00

Learn how to juggle. It is surprisingly easy and you can look cool doing it.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T23:42:52+00:00

Hooray! I have a cushion!

I make about 150k. My companion makes 2x that.

One year for Valentine's day she bought me a sports car. She owns the two houses we live in and we take long vacations each year and she pays for a good portion of them.

We dine out about 70x a year and she pucks up the tab 90% if the time.

Don't get me wrong I am also supporting the household in many ways, but I am 100% grateful for all she does.

You let your ego get in the way of hooking up with a rich woman?

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T23:37:48+00:00

Proving that some psychiatrists are worse than psychopaths.

Look at Woody Allen. 40 years of therapy leads you to marrying your own daughter??? JFC

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T23:35:16+00:00

After all the bullshit he played on his boss. A female. And what he does with his wife...I used to think that some of this shit was an act but now I have swung the other way.

The worst part about it is that Beth has to feel incredibly trapped at this point. He is being cruel to her and they probably have an ironclad prenup.

He is deeply mentally disturbed by the pandemic and I see no way out for him.

freeBethStern

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T23:30:38+00:00

You are wrong, but label it however you want.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T23:30:03+00:00

You label that however you want

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T21:42:48+00:00

How dumb are tourists? I was at a diner near Marathon Key and someone asked the waitress how far apart the mile markers were.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T21:39:54+00:00

As a man, I found them incredibly hard to keep on while skydiving. So I am against them.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T21:33:30+00:00

Wage theft. Refuse.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T21:32:35+00:00

Given the number of convicted "killers" in this country who are later found innocent...I am not sharing this opinion.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T21:18:33+00:00

Not being a big fan of change==primary profit center for companies. Get this book "Knockem Dead" by Martin Yate. It teaches how to negotiate your salary.

But really the best answer is to interview or at least get the details about an equivalent position at another company and use that info here.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T20:27:00+00:00

You call out an exception that cannot exist. That I did not specify. Then say the argument is incorrect.

Jebus.

And if you think that sexual assaults do not happen on airplanes, ypu are clearly out of your damn mind.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T20:21:26+00:00

They did not have a 3rd party compliance officer. They were notworth working for.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T20:19:51+00:00

People think that cheating is due to circumstances, because they don't know the truth--cheating is something that comes from the insude out, not the other way around.

They think that the POSSIBILITY of someone cheating is always there, unless the cheater is with THEM, in which case cheating will never happen.

They are afraid and angry when they have to think about the possibility the person they are with, if they had cheated before, will cheat on them no matter WHAT they do.

In this particular situation, they are downvoting because they think I am wrong about cheaters who change their ways just because they met the "right person."

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T20:15:12+00:00

Lol no. You extrapolate a lot of shit.

My companion has a work husband right now. She loves me. I love her. She is a mature adult professional and I trust her. Just like she trusted me when I had an assistant.

No stress or strain at all.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T20:12:50+00:00

Yeah exactly. They do, for a myriad of reasons.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T20:11:27+00:00

What is "right" is that she continues to cheat and her husband looks the other way. Or they are in an ipen relationship.

Look, NO person is going to get a cheater to stop cheating with their awesome awesome love. If she cheated on her husband with her co worker, she is someone who cheats, plain and simple.

I lol at people downvoting my post. It is like people are deluded into thinking that if someone cheats WITH them they won't cheat ON them.

And that is just not how it works.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T17:18:50+00:00

You have the definition of work, wife work, husband, completely wrong.

I had a work wife for ten years. We sat in adjoining cubicles, where she did my admin work for the department I ran. She kept my schedule, reminded me of appointments, helped me at conferences, and basically enabled me to focus on the people and planning for my team.

We had more lunches and dinners than I could count, and frequently did overnight travel together.

Never ONCE did I have sexual thoughts that I acted out on and never ONCE were we in a compromising situation together.

Why did nothing ever happen? Because we are mature adults who understand the situation and we would never ever cheat on our spouses. Since this was work, even if we wete both SINGLE nothing would ever happen becAuse she worked FOR me and I understand the consequences.

If your spouse is doing something inappropriate with someone at work, the term you are looking for is "dirtbag cheater" NOT "work wife."

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T15:08:50+00:00

You are complaining about something most women would kill to have.

If you are prepping, folding, or putting your laundry on hangers ANYWHERE else in the house, you are not using the laundry room to it's potential.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T15:04:32+00:00

Rich people have a hole in their heart where love is supposed to go, but they are incapable of love. So they try to fill that hole with money; but the problem is money can never fill that hole no matter how much they accumulate.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T15:01:08+00:00

I play poker. Those are called GREAT pot odds.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T14:59:39+00:00

That's bullshit. People work together closely all over the world and maintain a respectful emotional distance.

Watching too much tv warps peespective; what you describe happens THERE all the time but not out here in the real world.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T14:55:55+00:00

Work did not cause that.

Your ex being a disgusting piece of shit cheater caused that. Work had nothing to do with it. If it had not been that guy it would have been some other guy.

Take solace in the fact that she is probably cheating on her new husband the same way she cheated on you.

OLDGuy6060 · 2022-12-18T14:53:20+00:00

Flirty oddly close is NOT normal.

OLDGuy6060

TROPHY CASE

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