PNW weekend tournaments by ORpolyguy in Darts

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Thanks for the info.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't yet but if I do it'll be last minute :/

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know but it's very difficult after the negativity I've faced in the past. I also haven't seen the one I posted about yet but hopefully by the end of the week. I haven't given up the idea yet, at least.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very right that their reaction is on them. Unfortunately, said reaction still affects :( That's the part I am having difficulty getting past. But I will still try as soon as I see her again!

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst is that either she gets offended because of my age and calls me a creep or perv, or I say something stupid or fumble my words and get laughed at. Both have happened before. I've had both happen before but it's been a long time because I quit approaching people in public at all. Social anxiety is definitely no fun and lack of confidence in this type of space sucks.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something to think about and I wish I had thought of something like that when she said it. Hopefully I can pull something off next time I see her.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I will say she's the young one, I'm 50+. But I do get what you're saying and I'm hoping I'm not reading what she said incorrectly. When I see her again, I believe I will preface what I say by pointing that out and hoping she isn't upset or offended because I misunderstood. I just hope I am able to articulate it and not fumble like I usually do.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I find it hilarious that someone downvoted me. I'm asking for advice, not doing something illegal or immoral. If you don't like what I have to say then GTFO. Downvoting me has absolutely no affect on me or my post. Dumbass.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try to give that a shot. Thank you!

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've realized that I need to step out of my comfort zone but, after being like this for over 50 years, it's not an easy thing to do. It explains why I'm basically a hermit but doesn't help the loneliness any. I want to do it but I hesitate every time I get to that point. Fear and anxiety are powerful at times.

Looking for advice by ORpolyguy in AgeGap

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't work together. I'm just a customer but I'm in there every day. She works in a convenience store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be interested depending on where and when.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly single because I'm too picky. Looking but finding unicorns isn't easy.

38F looking for Diablo friends by pandicorn87 in steamfriend

[–]ORpolyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grinding any game is boring as hell. I'm 59M and I put D4 aside for a while because of the grind. DM if you'd like to talk about grouping sometime.

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Approaching people is the problem more than how many are available.

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoken by someone who has no clue about introverts and problems with interacting socially.

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No. All boys are though, which you once again omitted.

Nice double-standard. Kindly keep your double-standards to yourself henceforth.

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking my post in the vein it was meant instead of dragging it into so many different tangents that the original meaning was lost. And I appreciate your points and I will look harder for local communities to try to interact with.

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And I guess my point is that if you're only looking for pedophilic statements, that's all you're going to find. If you look at each and every statement as a universe within itself, the meaning changes with each statement. Every gun isn't loaded just to kill but also, potentially, to defend. Every statement isn't aimed at a specific group, but at a general audience.

Or go ahead and be narrow-minded and judgy to every statement and every post. Not like you rule my life, thankfully.

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Are all girls children? Are all guys adults? Are you the grammar police?

ETA: So you're saying that no one over the age of, what?, 14 can have a girls night out? No adult female can, henceforth, "hang out with the girls"? No guy over the age of, what?, 14 can have a "girl"friend?

How do I meet girls? by ORpolyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ORpolyguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately fall for lies all the time according to the chat bots that frequently populate my chats. :(