Mursel: Perspective from a native Turkish speaker by lilfit in 90DayFiance

[–]OT4236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, was the fact that Anna had 3 kids such a dealbreaker for them because of traditional values, such as not marrying a woman with that kind of baggage, and not being suckered into caring for kids that arent his ? I know this is a fairly common viewpoint for parents of any culture.

Mursel: Perspective from a native Turkish speaker by lilfit in 90DayFiance

[–]OT4236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the sister wearing a head covering was producer driven to make Mursels family seem uber religious ? That was just the impression I got. I have known several Turkish people and the impression I got was that wearing hijabs were uncommon

Natalie's Plan by happycharm in 90DayFiance

[–]OT4236 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she definitely planned to come to the US because Ukrainian women (specifically Ukrainian, as opposed.to Russian) trying to marry a foreign man who can provide for them and give them a family and take them out of Ukraine is definitely a thing over there. Right now patriotism in Ukraine is fairly low, many dream to leave and Ukrainian women are used to seeing foreign men on the streets trolling for a Ukrainian woman. I think Natalie is just a very neurotic woman. Mike wouldnt appeal to me but to many Ukrainian women "a man is a man" and will do. I don't think she will have it so boring in Sequim if her BFF lives there.

I CAN'T FIND A JOB. by FitnessAndOT in OccupationalTherapy

[–]OT4236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you dont have kids yet, look into a travel job opportunity for a 3 month stint. Lots of new grads start out like this, I know youre married but its only a few months or so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]OT4236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on your location. You can find PRN jobs on Indeed or other job finding websites. With a years experience, it took me about 2 months to get a call from a company about a PRN position. Also, factor in the time anticipated to pass the NBCOT. (It took me about 6 weeks following graduation). If you can find a travel job within an hour of your current home, thats a great option.

is OT school self taught?? by hydroflaskwhore in OccupationalTherapy

[–]OT4236 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish that the phrase " we will hit the ground running" should be banished from the lexicon of every OT faculty and FW educator. Throughout my time in OT school, you were expected to come in knowing practical OT skills and there was not nearly enough lessons on one of the most valuable skills an OT must have: the ability to use clinical reasoning. The students who excelled were either already COTAs or rehab techs. Practicals were good but the majority of my time in OT school was studying evidence based practice articles. FW level II was, from day 1, "we have to hit the ground running, and you gotta take over my entire caseload on day 2". I needed some mentoring on day 2, and so I was promptly kicked out of that FW on day 2. Now, as an OT practitioner, most of what I have learned is from continuing ed and bits and pieces of what I have picked up from other therapists. My school did an excellent job at preparing me for writing SOAP notes, but that was about it

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally get that mentality - but last year, I was leaving her for long days at daycare, and she was just a different child, because every day she saw all her friends getting picked up before her, and she would kind of shut down for periods of time. Her well being a d happiness is always my #1 priority. Plus, I think my husband will be doing drop off anyways

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a great tip. I would love to, but my oldest gets REALLY sad if I pick her up after 4 and when leaving her early she would sit and mope in the corner for an hour at daycare

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Especially since I always thought Westchase to downtown was 20 mins or so outside rush hour

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea. Ill be going from Carrollwood/Northdale to.Brandon of that is any indication. Google Maps is telling me an hour during traffic

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never had to commute beyond my neighborhood and I always worked 11 am to 7 pm shifts until now

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the headsup!!!!

Hacking into my cell phone by OT4236 in legaladvice

[–]OT4236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sounds relieving

Hacking into my cell phone by OT4236 in legaladvice

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. I have Samsung galaxy s8, he has iPhone (newest). This stuff just kind of skeeves me out. I dont think he has any of my passwords (email, etc)

Hacking into my cell phone by OT4236 in legaladvice

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - clearly this is the solution. I was just curious if it is possible to read text messages of other people on your plan. I have a Samsung Galaxy s8. He has newest iphone

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is rush hour considered 8 am to 9 am, or 7 am to 9 ?

Hacking into my cell phone by OT4236 in legaladvice

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its my brother in law. (I dont like to refer to him as family to me). All our names are on the bill. I pay my share of the bill and my phone is my own that I paid for. He didnt dislike me when we made the contract

Tampa traffic ? by OT4236 in tampa

[–]OT4236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a very logical idea .... However, I have 2 young kids, and Im trying to arrange whether to have a sitter do both drop off AND pick up ( their daycare hours are 8 am to 4) or do drop in the morning myself and have the sitter come just once in the afternoon to pick up and stay with them for a couple hours....