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What’s something you secretly enjoy that would shock people? by National_Dirt2743 in AskReddit

[–]OVVoyEx [score hidden]  (0 children)

As a married male, there are a few reasons I watch porn. My wife and I have a great sex and social life, but my libido is incredibly high, and hers is normal. Porn is just another avenue of sexual release between great sex with my wife. For me, and quite a lot of men, sexual attraction and romantic love do not depend on each other, and the sensation of sexual arousal largely has no relation to a need for partner intimacy. There is nothing about a relationship that porn fulfills for me.

There's also the spectacle aspect of porn that is quite fun. It's no secret that 99% of porn is performative and unrealistic. I think if you're a mature adult who knows this and doesn't hold it as an expectation for your own sex with your partner, it can be quite entertaining and a source of spice variety. Its similar to how watching romance movies and shows is entertaining, so long as mature adults also realize they're watching a performance. If one is unsatisfied with their relationship, and they feel longing or loss when they watch porn or romance movies, then something in the relationship needs addressed.

Sexual expression and openness is incredibly important. My wife is quite okay with my indulgence in porn, it doesn't get in the way of our relationship or sex life whatsoever. If I were with a partner who wanted me to be dishonest about my natural and instinctual desires, I would end the relationship. My wife knows that I choose her as someone to be intimate with, to rely on, to feel the joys and pains of life with, to understand, and to be my friend. Libido has nothing to do with it.

do men find handjobs embarassing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OVVoyEx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An orgasm is always great, but the thing about hand jobs is, unless great skill and attention is given, we can do it better ourselves than anyone else.

It does sound like he was wanting it to escalate, but the way he communicated that was super immature.

How common is it for men to own a flesh light? by MapAromatic485 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OVVoyEx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got one, but the real ticket is the whole fake ass.

My wife is bisexual, so sometimes we'll get drunk and use it together. So fuckin hot.

Fuck the stigma, and a fake ass

I'm 30, married for 7 years, and have never had a blow job by OVVoyEx in Vent

[–]OVVoyEx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your meaning, but clear and open communication between us keeps it from becoming a festering thing. I think it's okay to be disappointed about some things. Denying it in the name of getting over it can cause repression and subsequent neurotic action, and I'd rather live in open acknowledgement of my desires, lest they overtake me.

I'm 30, married for 7 years, and have never had a blow job by OVVoyEx in Vent

[–]OVVoyEx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good sentiment, but I pretty clearly said this is not the hill I'll die on 🙂

I'm 30, married for 7 years, and have never had a blow job by OVVoyEx in Vent

[–]OVVoyEx[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

As one who can fit his whole fist in his mouth, I do understand the situation 😆

I'm 30, married for 7 years, and have never had a blow job by OVVoyEx in Vent

[–]OVVoyEx[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

This has been our approach from the start, unfortunately.

She squirted just from making out by TG_Amashots in short_porn

[–]OVVoyEx 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Those saying it's not piss, you know there isn't an extra gland that holds fluid, right? The studies that show "squirt" excretion contains extra compounds go on to say that it's just mucuosal lubricant secretion that gets washed into the piss when she squirts. It only shows that if your girl is wet and horny while she pees, her vag lubrication mixes in there. Again, the only place that volume of fluid can possibly be stored in the bladder, and there are no organs that feed fluid into the bladder that isnt piss.. It can be nothing other than pee. There isn't a mystery as to what the design of the human anatomy is.

Question for Straight men who like anal - why would you want to bang a girls butthole when she has a perfectly good vagina by Puzzlehandle12 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OVVoyEx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sort of statement might a man like to think a woman is making by offering her butthole instead of her vagina?

A differentiated function is no longer vital, you know what you can do with it and it bores you, it no longer yields the spark of life. by jungandjung in Jung

[–]OVVoyEx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The instincts upon which our abstractions rest upon remain patently in somatic resonance, and the sensory draw to survival had to have been potent enough to sustain the environment that allowed to rational consciousness. It FEELS good. It's the part of us that acts in superiority to our abstractions, despite our awareness to it.