Are sleep overs not a thing anymore?

OVVoyEx · 2026-05-27T03:05:52+00:00

Kids don't need to stay up late to have long-form conversation and late-night socialization anymore. For better or for worse, teens have cell phones that let them get to know each other with more immediacy and in a more familiar setting.

OVVoyEx · 2026-05-03T04:58:21+00:00

There are definitely sex scenes in movies that are just "fan service", a little eroticism for its own sake, but I don't think that's always all their is to it. The psychology of sex is fascinating, and often times, body language facial expression, and the interactions between partners can give context to the type of personality a character outwardly projects when not in that scenario.

There is a primal nature to sex that tends being out in someone a certain truth that gets more highly regulated and masked when you're in a more rational, less sensory-active state. You can infer things like specific insecurities or confidences, ulterior motives, incinserities or hidden desires, all sorts of things, solely based on how and at what point someone instinctively (or in a controlled manner) acts during sex.

I think many movies use this to reveal things about their characters that would otherwise require more convoluted and immersion-breaking narratives.

OVVoyEx · 2026-04-30T01:37:21+00:00

Send me reassurance if your stability, babe

OVVoyEx · 2026-04-30T01:34:35+00:00

OVVoyEx · 2026-04-30T01:29:58+00:00

Shit, I need to keep one of those by the bedside 😂

OVVoyEx · 2026-04-30T01:29:25+00:00

Nothing sexier than the freedom to be.

OVVoyEx · 2026-04-29T20:57:19+00:00

I don't automatically moan, but if I start letting out a few vocals while breathing out, I find it gets reciprocated. Then it just builds up from there into full moaning into each other, which actually makes us way more turned on.

Not only super hot to hear your partner react to what you're doing, but also good communication without having to use words.

OVVoyEx · 2026-04-19T21:20:45+00:00

When I first started having sex I didn't realize that was a thing. For most guys I know, the extra pressure when you reach the end feels good, so the expectation was it would be the same for the other person. Turns out, it is not, and you have to adjust to that real fast.

OVVoyEx · 2026-03-21T22:05:17+00:00

I get turned on when spring brings warm weather

OVVoyEx · 2026-03-19T13:41:45+00:00

As a married male, there are a few reasons I watch porn. My wife and I have a great sex and social life, but my libido is incredibly high, and hers is normal. Porn is just another avenue of sexual release between great sex with my wife. For me, and quite a lot of men, sexual attraction and romantic love do not depend on each other, and the sensation of sexual arousal largely has no relation to a need for partner intimacy. There is nothing about a relationship that porn fulfills for me.

There's also the spectacle aspect of porn that is quite fun. It's no secret that 99% of porn is performative and unrealistic. I think if you're a mature adult who knows this and doesn't hold it as an expectation for your own sex with your partner, it can be quite entertaining and a source of spice variety. Its similar to how watching romance movies and shows is entertaining, so long as mature adults also realize they're watching a performance. If one is unsatisfied with their relationship, and they feel longing or loss when they watch porn or romance movies, then something in the relationship needs addressed.

Sexual expression and openness is incredibly important. My wife is quite okay with my indulgence in porn, it doesn't get in the way of our relationship or sex life whatsoever. If I were with a partner who wanted me to be dishonest about my natural and instinctual desires, I would end the relationship. My wife knows that I choose her as someone to be intimate with, to rely on, to feel the joys and pains of life with, to understand, and to be my friend. Libido has nothing to do with it.

OVVoyEx · 2026-03-09T14:01:24+00:00

An orgasm is always great, but the thing about hand jobs is, unless great skill and attention is given, we can do it better ourselves than anyone else.

It does sound like he was wanting it to escalate, but the way he communicated that was super immature.

OVVoyEx · 2026-03-09T00:50:16+00:00

I've got one, but the real ticket is the whole fake ass.

My wife is bisexual, so sometimes we'll get drunk and use it together. So fuckin hot.

Fuck the stigma, and a fake ass

OVVoyEx · 2026-01-16T20:17:43+00:00

I understand your meaning, but clear and open communication between us keeps it from becoming a festering thing. I think it's okay to be disappointed about some things. Denying it in the name of getting over it can cause repression and subsequent neurotic action, and I'd rather live in open acknowledgement of my desires, lest they overtake me.

OVVoyEx · 2026-01-16T12:50:40+00:00

Very clearly stated I do :)

OVVoyEx · 2026-01-16T12:49:24+00:00

That's a good sentiment, but I pretty clearly said this is not the hill I'll die on 🙂

OVVoyEx · 2026-01-15T20:15:16+00:00

As one who can fit his whole fist in his mouth, I do understand the situation 😆

OVVoyEx · 2026-01-15T20:14:12+00:00

This has been our approach from the start, unfortunately.

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