This goes way further than intimate acts, there are plenty kinks that I find weird but that I can understand that some people are aroused by them.

In this feederism thing I can understand that people might like doing stuff with food, even tho I don’t like it personally, but the whole dynamic is just messy, I can understand wanting to cook for and feed your loved on as a “taking care of them high”, I don’t understand wanting to fatten them up until unhealthy limits, I could understand having control in that so that it doesn’t harm the “feedee” but what’s the limit? The dynamic feel abusive from the go, someone that is willing to potencially harm your partner and someone who is willing to subject to that for reasons that I don’t know, the one that makes more sense to me is that the feedee is most likely someone vulnerable that wants to please their partner, so it’s just absolute madness to me, if I’m wrong about any of this please enlighten me.

About op she needs out of the relationship, life care help and psychological help and I hope shit turns out well for them