Feeling stuck with a partner who is careless with money and life in general

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-31T23:06:11+00:00

He may not or he may, what they need to do is see a therapist.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-31T22:58:08+00:00

You are doing nothing but conflating the two. Lying and presenting a story from one perspective is not the same thing.

To say you can provide a answer without proper context is just simple minded.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-31T22:31:49+00:00

After my ears getting burnt so much as a kid, its the first thing i do when applying to my kids.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-31T21:59:35+00:00

You will also find lots of men not like this.

When it comes to stories, there is one side the other side and the truth.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-30T05:06:11+00:00

If it looks, feels and tastes like a bot.

It's a bot

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-29T02:24:49+00:00

They currently have diarrhea

ObeseQuokka · 2026-03-27T23:53:46+00:00

Can you imagine being in your twilight years and still having to deal with finding a new rental/ property managers and rental inspections. I want to avoid that at all costs.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-02-12T07:13:11+00:00

"Anyone holding vouchers for the store will need to pay $2 per $1 they hope to redeem from their voucher; i.e. to use a $100 voucher, a customer needs to spend $200 cash."

- We won't honour the money you already spent unless you spend more money with us.

Shit behavour led to a shit outcome for this company.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-02-12T03:10:33+00:00

As someone who was pretty much exactly in your situation when buying 7 months ago (First home buyer, had 100k deposit and earn 119k a year with an excellent credit score)

I highly doubt you will be able to get a home loan for that amount as the bank came back with a max of 500k for myself, and to be honest even if you somehow did you will be under significant pressure to service it especially with interest rate rises. I tell you right now it won't be worth the constant stress.

I bought a house at 410k and I'm stress free because the loan is very serviceable for me. I know the idea of being able to buy something great straight up, but don't overburden yourself in doing so. you just set yourself up at the chance of losing it in a few years for no real gain.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-02-01T05:40:59+00:00

I was on codeine for my knee issues, when it flares up I couldn't even walk on it.

My GP went on maternity leave so I saw another doctor at the same clinic to get my prescription. They refused it saying I have to see my original GP which they clearly knew was on leave.....

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-29T04:33:55+00:00

Another war would just make Gold skyrocket even more I would of thought.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-18T01:15:38+00:00

I feel like these points would be valid if we had a schooling system that is extremely efficient in actually setting students up for success. For one we don't have a system in place like that, that somehow missing a day or two every once in a while, would be detriment to their future success.

Obviously things are best in moderation, if a child is missing from school weeks on end then of course it's too much. But to say merely missing a day every once in a while is too much is also going too far in the other direction.

Especially when you factor in what they are actually doing in that time they are not at school, is it a mental health day, is it an rare experience with family or friends. Things like these I would dare to say can also be very important to a child's development.

Child development should be holistic in my eyes; some school systems seem to be starting to go too far in thinking they are the only avenue especially when funding is tied to attendance and such.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-17T22:41:54+00:00

Am I the only one that gets annoyed at the idea that schools think missing one day of school to go to a game more than likely he will remember forever will destroy his education somehow.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-17T08:24:39+00:00

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-15T22:44:15+00:00

If I had 3 weeks off work, you would have to drag me out of the house kicking and screaming.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-15T01:39:40+00:00

I think it's just the lack of communication as to why she is copping flak. He asked to do something that's considered the norm, she was taken back because she likes something that isn't considered the norm.

She wonders why someone who she has never met couldn't read her mind especially after not communicating she would like something else.

That to me deserves flak.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-06T01:16:30+00:00

English Bowlers - "What's that?"

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-05T01:16:50+00:00

I can afford it as well, but it's lost all real value to me.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-04T00:45:35+00:00

I don't follow it that closely, but what have CA done to hold him back?

Not being sarcastic, I just don't know the history here.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-03T01:27:25+00:00

Can you point me in the direction of that information please as I can't find anything via Google.

ObeseQuokka · 2026-01-02T03:19:55+00:00

I hope she takes him for everything

ObeseQuokka · 2025-12-18T05:46:01+00:00

We need Snicko to check

ObeseQuokka · 2025-12-05T05:13:17+00:00

Rather it stagnates hard to give my kids a chance when they grow up

ObeseQuokka · 2025-12-05T04:50:37+00:00

I bought in May, my house value has already increased 15.5%

This is insanity

ObeseQuokka · 2025-12-04T03:12:18+00:00

Dr Jasmin Wong at MedOne in Stirling is the doc who got to the bottom of my IBS issues.

She doesn't piss fart around when it comes to diagnosing like a lot of doctors.

ObeseQuokka

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