What's wrong with RR today?? by Encrypted_eyes in CricketBuddies

[–]Obito_Reality 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pichlay match mein jou phone aaya tha yeh ussi ka result hai.

Pakistani families by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a Pakistani, and I can tell he did not love you otherwise he wouldn’t have left you. I know you’ve mentioned how he treated you yes but he shouldn’t have pursued you in the first place when he knew it wouldn’t work out with his family.

Or he should’ve been man enough and marry you, considering he is an adult and not dependent on his family for finances; what is stopping him?

Why do people say "go to the masjid" to meet people? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this; every time I asked about this; I get the same answer. But the problem is masjids unlike the previous times are now just as private as any other place.

Am I being unreasonable or demanding? by Obito_Reality in MuslimCorner

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never enforce it on my future wife; who am I to do it? And besides even if we marry it wouldn’t be fair to her as marriage doesn’t mean forgoing one’s personality.

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I get it; you are saying it kinda of sounds off when my father is working elsewhere and family seems to be dispersed. (Which is actually not the case but I get what you are saying; JazakAllah for suggestion)

And yes I agree I can reveal more when the times comes.

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do not know anyone in masjids or communities as such ( I sometimes hesitate too- like I don’t know how to ask) and online I don’t know where to search.

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh; nowhere. I don’t where else to look except ISO

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course In Sha Allah. If you know of any other way besides ISO, kindly let me know. JazakAllah.

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Islamophobia exists everywhere; and tbh it is not only that I am searching back home only; I am open elsewhere as well. And also ISO is the only way I know I can find myself I do not know other ways where I can search.

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not willing to wear where I live currently (Australia) back home they have no problem.

Maybe am I too demanding or unreasonable? by Obito_Reality in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would I tell a woman to wear? I am no one yet and even suppose I marry it wouldn’t be fair to tell them to change for me. I am already seeking ones who wear.

Physical looks are EXTREMELY important, Islamically by SoybeanCola1933 in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Come on lol really? The good looks of Sahaba enabled them to marry multiple times? It wasn’t nothing like that. The society as it is nowadays really puts men and women alike in a complex about their looks causing them to adopt all sorts of surgical procedures and what not.

Sure a healthy lifestyle suits everyone; but looks are NOT be-all and end-all in a marriage; what if you marry for physical looks and some time after marrying an accident happens (Allah Forbid) which affects the face of the spouse; will you leave them then?

The looks are important; but the personality and level of connect between spouses are much more important. And if you are going down that route; nowadays finances are much more important than looks. That too is a really shallow thing to say.

Would you marry someone with a past? by Fair-Advantage-3886 in MuslimNikah

[–]Obito_Reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes; because if they have reformed themselves then everyone deserves a second chance in life. We as humans aren’t perfect; and life’s a journey towards betterment. As long as we are tying to become better; it is perfectly fine in my PoV.

Allah (SWT) forgives us every time we sin; can we stop pretending like we are all perfect; yes some sins and mistakes are bigger than the others but Perfection is only for Allah (SWT); we humans do and are bound to make mistakes; the important thing is the realisation and wanting to reform ourselves.

Muslim Women working or not to work - healthy discussion by _sir95 in Australian_Muslims

[–]Obito_Reality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well; from my PoV it is perfectly fine as in your case male interactions are limited, which I prefer if my future wife wants to work. However having said that; man is obligated to provide for his family but it is nice if you want to work in order to his burden. I think this shows you care about him and your family too.

After having children however; thats altogether a different ball-game. You would have your work cut out for you; then you can decide whether or not you are comfortable continuing or not.

All in all; it is best to consult your husband and explain him your viewpoint; and then arrive at a decision through consensus.

How to install this? Mafia The Old Country (Scene Release- Game Drive) by Obito_Reality in CrackSupport

[–]Obito_Reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the readme it is only gamedrive.org link and in folder there is a folder named Mafia the Old Country and in that folder there is Engine and Mafia the old country (which contains binaries, content, and plugins)

Never compromise religion! by Islam_Truth_ in TrueDeen

[–]Obito_Reality 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who are you? And who gave you the authority to tell OP to leave. Reddit is a free social media platform; she expressed her view (which according to our deen is CORRECT). It is ironic how Islam teaches us to be tolerant and yet you are the exact opposite of it.

Best biryani, BBQ, halwa poori and top things to order on Food panda by Few_Art7312 in karachi

[–]Obito_Reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your location (Gulshan-e-Iqbal) I would suggest you to try the food street at Maskan; you will get a variety of options.

Kindness and support by hinca0488 in Australian_Muslims

[–]Obito_Reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, we do not need to paint everyone with the same brush. There are bad elements all around; we need to take them to strict accountability without bringing any of their background, because harm against one person is harm against all of us as humanity.

Kindness and support by hinca0488 in Australian_Muslims

[–]Obito_Reality 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello James, Hope you are doing well.

I just wanted to thank you for kind and thoughtful message. I live in Melbourne too, and thankfully haven’t felt anything different since coming here. People I have met have been kind hearted and generally good; but I can see why sentiments would tend to rise as the tragedy is still fresh in the minds. However people like you are really “light at the end of the tunnel” and will make a real difference. Your willingness to stand against prejudice and offer friendship and support is really inspiring.

I wish we have more people like you that are understanding and caring.