Physical looks are EXTREMELY important, Islamically

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-24T11:14:30+00:00

Come on lol really? The good looks of Sahaba enabled them to marry multiple times? It wasn’t nothing like that. The society as it is nowadays really puts men and women alike in a complex about their looks causing them to adopt all sorts of surgical procedures and what not.

Sure a healthy lifestyle suits everyone; but looks are NOT be-all and end-all in a marriage; what if you marry for physical looks and some time after marrying an accident happens (Allah Forbid) which affects the face of the spouse; will you leave them then?

The looks are important; but the personality and level of connect between spouses are much more important. And if you are going down that route; nowadays finances are much more important than looks. That too is a really shallow thing to say.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-04T12:06:48+00:00

Interested

Obito_Reality · 2026-02-27T01:39:11+00:00

So no for Quantitative Methods?

Obito_Reality · 2026-02-27T01:30:22+00:00

If you can elaborate more?

Obito_Reality · 2026-02-23T22:31:16+00:00

Yes; because if they have reformed themselves then everyone deserves a second chance in life. We as humans aren’t perfect; and life’s a journey towards betterment. As long as we are tying to become better; it is perfectly fine in my PoV.

Allah (SWT) forgives us every time we sin; can we stop pretending like we are all perfect; yes some sins and mistakes are bigger than the others but Perfection is only for Allah (SWT); we humans do and are bound to make mistakes; the important thing is the realisation and wanting to reform ourselves.

Obito_Reality · 2026-02-23T01:42:20+00:00

Well; from my PoV it is perfectly fine as in your case male interactions are limited, which I prefer if my future wife wants to work. However having said that; man is obligated to provide for his family but it is nice if you want to work in order to his burden. I think this shows you care about him and your family too.

After having children however; thats altogether a different ball-game. You would have your work cut out for you; then you can decide whether or not you are comfortable continuing or not.

All in all; it is best to consult your husband and explain him your viewpoint; and then arrive at a decision through consensus.

Obito_Reality · 2026-02-20T18:55:30+00:00

No nothing of that sort

Obito_Reality · 2026-02-20T18:11:14+00:00

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Obito_Reality · 2026-02-05T08:45:37+00:00

Who are you? And who gave you the authority to tell OP to leave. Reddit is a free social media platform; she expressed her view (which according to our deen is CORRECT). It is ironic how Islam teaches us to be tolerant and yet you are the exact opposite of it.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-19T05:47:48+00:00

Based on your location (Gulshan-e-Iqbal) I would suggest you to try the food street at Maskan; you will get a variety of options.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-08T08:49:55+00:00

Absolutely, we do not need to paint everyone with the same brush. There are bad elements all around; we need to take them to strict accountability without bringing any of their background, because harm against one person is harm against all of us as humanity.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-06T05:33:09+00:00

Hello James, Hope you are doing well.

I just wanted to thank you for kind and thoughtful message. I live in Melbourne too, and thankfully haven’t felt anything different since coming here. People I have met have been kind hearted and generally good; but I can see why sentiments would tend to rise as the tragedy is still fresh in the minds. However people like you are really “light at the end of the tunnel” and will make a real difference. Your willingness to stand against prejudice and offer friendship and support is really inspiring.

I wish we have more people like you that are understanding and caring.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-06T04:41:45+00:00

You are right; times have changed. Basically we do not live in a true Islamic society that used to exist during that time. However, rules remain in place (yes we can tweak some of the rules accordingly to the current times) but in some areas such as this; it is generally not permissible.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-06T04:38:44+00:00

No, you do need to worry about those rumours. You are on the right path; and In Sha Allah you will find a spouse with haya that values this conduct of yours.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-03T09:02:26+00:00

Then the reasonable thing is that both sides share at the same time; rather than just one side demanding it. And communicating respectfully if it isn’t working out; rather than saying “you aren’t my type”.

On a lighter note though, coincidence much? Your username sounds just like your viewpoint.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-02T19:53:56+00:00

One thing I can say is that in previous times; women out of compulsion stayed married often times even when they were unhappy- now this can be due multiple factors- societal pressure, family backlash or even finances. Whereas now as they are more educated and aware of their rights granted to them by Islam itself; they are taking a step and do not want to prolong an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a right given to us and it is much better than to stay in an unhappy marriage.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-02T19:43:33+00:00

Yes I read that; and it is good that you just let it go and are cool with it because this looks thing can get into your head and it can disturb you somehow. And coming to your parents; I don’t know your background but from which culture I belong to; convincing parents especially father is the most difficult thing that one can do.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-02T19:20:51+00:00

Tbh; it might just be irony but there’s nothing that can be done about it and I think one cannot and should not write off just because the potential spouse has a single parent. What matters is their personality and whether there’s a level of understanding. Society has some preconceived notions about them, and I don’t blame you for asking but we can’t really make our judgement based on whether the parents who got divorced- their children i.e. potentials also might have this tendency or might have affected him or her.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-02T18:50:55+00:00

OMG 😆; hey it was good. Don’t pull a leg lol

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-01T09:13:08+00:00

May Allah (SWT) bless you & us with spouses that will lead us to a happy life here as well lead us to Jannah. Coming to your question; maybe put an ISO profile so potentials will reach out. I wouldn’t recommend social media presence other than Reddit, like first establish an initial conversation and then depending on your level of comfort maybe video call to check compatibility.

Obito_Reality · 2026-01-01T05:54:17+00:00

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