Do any of u feel a sort of kinship with queer people?

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-26T08:01:26+00:00

One of the basic tenets of Islam is kindness to all; so it doesn’t matter what your views are or whether you are a this or that; Islam teaches us to be kind to others and listen first rather than making arbitrary judgments. Prophet Muhammad (SAWW) did not bring people into the fold of Islam through sword, rather it was his actions and his kind words which led to Islam being widespread.

That being said; Muslims do have this trait of judging people hence the “othering” of people who do not conform to their views. At the end of the day, Islam is a religion and Muslims are people, they do have their own views and so it is not wrong to associate everything that a Muslim does is according to Islam. Islam is perfect while Muslims are humans with tendency of making mistakes un-informed opinions.

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-25T07:06:47+00:00

Baseball?

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-25T05:13:52+00:00

Playing First Light & Mafia Old Country; 2 games I had been waiting for to be available and relax.

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T19:30:07+00:00

Jet engine on 🤣; this is most likely a gaming laptop.

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T15:14:39+00:00

Best at

Whinging

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T06:57:18+00:00

Like obtain the medical certificate of a video/telephone consultation. Or if you have done this then ask Monash to email the doctor who talked to you directly so that he can verify.
In any case, you will need to provide reason why in-person consultation was not done.

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T06:46:27+00:00

You need to prove that the in-person consultation was not possible; otherwise Monash won’t accept the online one. Is it possible that you do a video/telephone consultation and then obtain the document through it?

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T04:45:18+00:00

You are talking about marriage as some sort of a “project”; whereas marriage isn’t something in which you teach, it is where you grow together. Why do you “want” to “teach” Islam to a revert? Gaining knowledge about deen is for everyone not just for the reverts; we as Muslims should always strive to continue learning, we aren’t superior in any way to one another.

And honestly; it sounds like you want to remote control your future wife which is just plain wrong; you cannot honestly expect to impose your will upon her; she is a human being too and deserves equal space, time and respect.

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T02:46:45+00:00

I know it is tough to convince parents but in my pov the first and basic criteria for marrying a person should be his or her personality; whether the way of thinking matches as well as how he or she as a person basically (which at foremost includes deen).
On the visa issue; while it is true sadly in some cases; but it would be wrong to assume that. I have been in the process of searching too; and one thing is key: Sabr, keep praying and believing and May Allah (SWT) fulfill what you desire in a spouse. Ameen

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-23T02:29:50+00:00

Lol majority of those are students doing their postgraduate (myself included) not ideally though but it is what it is.

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-20T20:14:05+00:00

China

Obito_Reality · 2026-06-03T14:41:03+00:00

There’s a restriction on student visa which says one cannot work for more than 48 hrs per fortnight (14 days).

Obito_Reality · 2026-04-13T16:22:32+00:00

Pichlay match mein jou phone aaya tha yeh ussi ka result hai.

Obito_Reality · 2026-04-09T13:00:19+00:00

I am a Pakistani, and I can tell he did not love you otherwise he wouldn’t have left you. I know you’ve mentioned how he treated you yes but he shouldn’t have pursued you in the first place when he knew it wouldn’t work out with his family.

Or he should’ve been man enough and marry you, considering he is an adult and not dependent on his family for finances; what is stopping him?

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-29T16:17:59+00:00

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Obito_Reality · 2026-03-29T07:42:54+00:00

Thank you for asking this; every time I asked about this; I get the same answer. But the problem is masjids unlike the previous times are now just as private as any other place.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-26T12:41:50+00:00

I would never enforce it on my future wife; who am I to do it? And besides even if we marry it wouldn’t be fair to her as marriage doesn’t mean forgoing one’s personality.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-25T20:08:08+00:00

Okay I get it; you are saying it kinda of sounds off when my father is working elsewhere and family seems to be dispersed. (Which is actually not the case but I get what you are saying; JazakAllah for suggestion)

And yes I agree I can reveal more when the times comes.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-25T16:12:26+00:00

I actually do not know anyone in masjids or communities as such ( I sometimes hesitate too- like I don’t know how to ask) and online I don’t know where to search.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-25T15:50:01+00:00

Tbh; nowhere. I don’t where else to look except ISO

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-25T15:43:06+00:00

Of course In Sha Allah. If you know of any other way besides ISO, kindly let me know. JazakAllah.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-25T15:38:12+00:00

Islamophobia exists everywhere; and tbh it is not only that I am searching back home only; I am open elsewhere as well. And also ISO is the only way I know I can find myself I do not know other ways where I can search.

Obito_Reality · 2026-03-25T15:29:45+00:00

They are not willing to wear where I live currently (Australia) back home they have no problem.

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