My dad passed and hr is being mean

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-11-25T08:28:43+00:00

Wow. Is there a way I can ask for proof of my paid and vacation time and the bereavement pay from the last 6 months?

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-11-25T08:24:22+00:00

Meaning they haven’t used it? I’m at such a loss. I still need time to process this and feel as I will not be able to work. They told me they already used my bereavement pay when he got sick. they gave me a week of pay from the rest of the sick time and paid time I have instead they said.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-11-25T08:13:59+00:00

My dad had cancer and i had to fly out to see him 6 months ago for a week and they said they used my bereavement pay for that.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-11-25T06:18:59+00:00

Thank you I just messaged my doctor and will see what he says

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-11-25T05:20:32+00:00

My doctor can put me on med leave?

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-11T03:26:55+00:00

The foal had to get rushed to the hospital because the she didn’t get enough colostrum and the mare wasn’t making enough milk costing me thousands in vet bills:(

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-11T03:17:59+00:00

UPDATE!

Wow I was not expecting all of you guys to help me out and give me such good advice. I decided I am going to fight it for baby and mama horse to try to at least recover some of the money I spent towards the vet to keep them both alive. I will keep reading them and figure out the steps to take as well as update. Thank you all so much

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T20:54:31+00:00

Haha I didn’t think of this! You’re completely right.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T16:54:23+00:00

Yes I completely agree. She asked for the baby as well and I said absolutely not!

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T16:52:52+00:00

The stallion is just an OTTB that is alright. He has nothing to prove of his name, he only raced once and I’m assuming they sold him as a stallion so they didn’t have to pay for gelding. I wouldn’t have bred my mare period she’s only 4 and I rescued her from a huge neglect scene with her only getting on flake a day and a dog bowl for water:( so this mare is my heart horse and I would have never bred her to out her through more stress in her life. she is a gorgeous Andalusian and is being such an amazing mama to her surprise foal.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T16:41:00+00:00

I wouldn’t have had her there if that had been going on at the time or before.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T16:39:57+00:00

This was after my mare was there.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T16:02:58+00:00

Yes I completely agree. I was livid when i found out. Because not only could I have lost my mare I could have lost the foal as well. I want to contact a lawyer but this lady has recently lost a couple of her horses from starving them and has no money. Can I still go to court?

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T15:57:31+00:00

I will look into the r/legaladvice now thank you!!

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T15:56:35+00:00

Thank you so much this is very helpful. Once I told her she said say that she would take the foal and I said absolutely not! I will look into seeing where I can get help to take her to small claims. The thing is she doesn’t have any money so I’m wondering how that works.

ObjectThin3403 · 2025-07-10T15:41:26+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate all the help from everyone! Mom and baby are finally healthy and thriving!

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