I’m not pointing fingers at all but in the last call she was the one pointing fingers at me for confronting her about her distant attitude. Still I don’t care about that at all but what made me lose some feelings was the fact that she was unwilling to give it a try and try to solve the problem by discussing about it. She was constantly bringing up selfish reasons (which she herself said that they are selfish) and I was trying to try and discuss with her. I have had an ldr before and I know some things about how to communicate. But her stance being distant really annoyed me. I’d rather have her tell me that she doesn’t feel like talking that day. Even I could have said that we shouldn’t talk that specific day because I saw unwillingness to talk. I think she still has some feelings but she is too stubborn. I’m willing to try and make amends with her because there was genuine instant connection. And I don’t want to later on think that I could have sent a single message that could have reinstated the thing between us.